Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

boredmarriedwithkids wrote: »

SFH...the truth!

Kids have no guile, you tell them fibs it will come back to haunt you!

Do thing under your terms....kids are adaptable, they get used to change!

Thing is he is missing his dad with all his heart and has taken it very badly,had him at docs and hence why he is off this week,due to being so poorly some down to stress
xxxxxx

scottishfreebiehunter

boredmarriedwithkids wrote: »

Remember folks to do things with dignity and understanding!

Never ever lower your standards to anyone elses!

:T:TI agree

I did this a few weeks ago calling the biatch etc but now no pointx

boredmarriedwithkids

Good on ya girl!

Strength comes from within, the more you use it the easier it gets to say no and stand your ground...!

As for the moose? Not sure, but avoid at all costs!

kizzykizzywizzy

I will never lower my standards to that of a DFS, don't you worry;)

I don't know where Robster is, obviously with the kids, I'd be nervous leaving them:o though I'd love to meet everyone.

DS is asleep, he doesn't actually feel hot, just skin soaked!

boredmarriedwithkids

SFH...understand completely...but, how long can you maintain this? Your health and that of you kids are not worth it!

It will become a charade...gotta move on girl!

dellybelly_2

julie2710 wrote: »

, now I'm worrying about how he will be be with DS while I'm in and wondering if this is the right thing to do. I could always get my mum to look after DS while I'm in, but then I think I'm being unfair to his dad? I just don't want him having 2 nights of hell whilst I'm away and then having to cope with sharing me when I get out. THIS IS CRAP!!!

Julie - get your mum to look after him. Stuff being unfair to his dad. You need to look after yourself and your new baby and the best interests of your son. None of you will be happy if you're in hospital fretting about how your little boy is doing with an idiot dad... I always remember a saying I heard in the usa .. "if mamma ain't happy - ain't no-body happy!".

scottishfreebiehunter

boredmarriedwithkids wrote: »

SFH...understand completely...but, how long can you maintain this? Your health and that of you kids are not worth it!

It will become a charade...gotta move on girl!

I know,though he is always going to be part of my ds life and he will not be taking him anywhere other than here or his parents when visiting then nothing I can do.
Though he and the biatch will have to realise that a young boy is hurting badly:(

boredmarriedwithkids

SFH...change the dynamic of the situation to suit you...!

Difficult with a lot of parameters to consider but you cannot let it continue in its current form...there needs to be a meeting of minds before your son is very ill, both mentally and physically!

scottishfreebiehunter

I agree with speak to the t o s s e r tomorrow or on Monday when he comes up
But then he will turn it all around saying my fault


Oh and changed my bank account to Halifax bank of Scotland and now they are merging with this numptieeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssss at tsb:mad::mad::mad::mad:

robster1964

I think what I am tryng to say.............. Is that I will be around you guys forever! I will neva forget about u...I am going to be at work a load of times, and u will think I have lost interest.......


Not so........!

If ya eva want to meet me, dont't worry about the geographics and the cost of the hotel...... I can honestly cover that........

I appreciate we are on a forum...... but guys I love some of you so MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Robster xxx