Marriage over don't know where to start

gerturdeanna

Robster - I thought what tesuhoha was saying was quite right and relevant -maybe I've got it wrong?!?!

robster1964

Julie, honey, sorry I have not followed your story as much as Kizzy & co. I meant to say something earlier, until I saw that god damn msg by tesuho, or whateva...

Can't say anything helpful or positve at the moment, but hun, my thoughts are with you, as they are with everyone going through this god damn hell.....

Nite Babe...
Robster xxx

gerturdeanna

I'm off to bedy byes folks. See you in the morning!!

kizzykizzywizzy

Rang DFS earlier on as DS was crying so much & crying for Daddy, he spoke to him & he did calm down a lot, BUT then the conversation started all 42 minutes of the same old crap, no I didn't cry or beg or ask before you say anything, I just did the if you were anyone else other than thier Dad that they love I would have killed you will my bare hands for what you've done to them!:eek: :eek: where did that come from:o
Also told him Moose is not going near them & he said what never? & I said NO WAY is the slag that has taken thier Daddy away from them & caused them so much pain going anywhere near them. I also said christ you couldn't have picked an uglier one could you? i also said she obviously isn't committed as she hasn't told her husband yet, he said she has - liar! I said oh great another family devastated then. I said I bet she can't wait to move down here & live on 50p a week!
He said he thinks about the kids every minute of the day, I said so if you do why IF you were so unhappy didn't you tell me so we could've done something about it, so our children weren't put into this situation! I said the day you first cheated was the day you risked losing your children.
He said you're going to try & turn the children against me I said I always tell them you love them, you will be the one turning them against you when you behave so badly towards me, the one stable person in thier lives.
Also he started saying do you know how much he insurance on the mortgage is yet? ( still waiting to hear if they will insure me after doctors letter ) I said no, but you've told me an amount you are paying, so what's the difference? He said IS will count is as an income, I said that's right try & weedle your way out of paying! Son woke up again about 10-15 mins ago soaking wet with sweat, crying, so just text him to say I don't think he's very well, just got a text back saying thanks for letting me know.
Great thing is I don't want him back again!! for at least the next 2 minutes that is:rotfl: :rotfl:
Oh I'm an idiot, it's just I really need to get this crap off my chest & as the kids are always about, I have to be nicey nicey to him & I really just want to yell at him "WHY?:mad: "

kizzykizzywizzy

Night Gert
I can't say I read it in that way either, but heyho!

The stress boredom & sex thing is probably right in my situation as there was NO SEX as he was on a ship ( until the moose that is:mad: ) he hated the ship so was stressed & nothing to do on the ship except go to the crew bar or sit in your cabin & watch DVDs( or have sex with a moose )

boredmarriedwithkids

kkw....hang in there......I know its cheesy but things really do come to those that wait....!

Anyway if you need help..I'm good at concrete overboots!

robster1964

Kizzy, babe, ((hug, hug, hug and a massive cuddly hug)),

You can't get someone back if they have already moved on.....

You can make them take responsibility, for their children............

They love them, allegedly.........Let that f u c k e r show it..............

Go and look after your sister for a while.......

You are coping with so much.....

Babe, if i COULD

robster1964

!!!!!!...happened there.

Why don't a few of us just meet up.....?

I get so god damn worried, especially about god damn SFH.......... LOL!

What about

kizzykizzywizzy

He has even admitted he puts on an act when he speaks to me !!!!!!! I said why? it's me!! that's when he said he thinks about the kids all the time blah blah.
All I know is I've done nothing wrong, i certainly didn't think he was unhappy, I didn't try to make him unhappy & myself & the kids were happy.
Now it seems all of us are miserable, because HE wants to be happy!
I just want something nice to happen to me for once - when i became debt free, I said i can't believe it it's too good to be true & I was really nervous that something bad would happen, well it bl**dy well did, didn't it.

kizzykizzywizzy

robster1964 wrote: »

!!!!!!...happened there.

Why don't a few of us just meet up.....?

I get so god damn worried, especially about god damn SFH.......... LOL!

What about

I don't understand - sorry a bit dim tonight??