Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

Have you all gone??

scottishfreebiehunter

robster1964 wrote: »

!!!!!!...happened there.

Why don't a few of us just meet up.....?

I get so god damn worried, especially about god damn SFH.......... LOL!

What about

:hello::hello:Im herexxxxx

I am okay though if it wasnt for you lot and speaking to kizzy on phone god knows where I would have beenxxxxxxxx

Well kizzy after came off phone to you ,ds became hysterical left him for little while to see if he would calm down and not called the half wit to be told this cannot go on at night ds calling him,right okay !!!! it was you who caused this problem:mad::mad:

kizzy how is ds?

boredmarriedwithkids

kizzy...there comes a time in life where we need to draw a line under events/things in our life!......and move on!

This is your time, bite the bullet and think of yourself!

Easier said than done...I know, but, you REALLY need to focus on the future and move on! If you dont then the issues remain the same! Think of yourself and how you can make it better for your kids...sod anyone else!

kizzykizzywizzy

SFH - think DS is a bit poorly he was soaked with sweat, he did say he wanted to go to bed when he came out of school today, so perhaps he's coming down with something?

scottishfreebiehunter

I know we have to draw a line under it,though so very difficult when our young family needs there dadswhat do you tell them

A part of me wants to say no more ,no more visits but that just aint possible and not fair on them etc

robster1964

... If we stay friends....Why don't we try to meet up. Maybe just before crimbo, or what eva............

I know cost etc etc with you guys is an issue..............

It's not with me... a couple of hotel bills on my account, doesn't make too much difference.....

Anyway Guys, if you feel up for it.... Let me know....

Robster xxx

boredmarriedwithkids

SFH...the truth!

Kids have no guile, you tell them fibs it will come back to haunt you!

Do thing under your terms....kids are adaptable, they get used to change!

scottishfreebiehunter

robster1964 wrote: »

... If we stay friends....Why don't we try to meet up. Maybe just before crimbo, or what eva............

I know cost etc etc with you guys is an issue..............

It's not with me... a couple of hotel bills on my account, doesn't make too much difference.....

Anyway Guys, if you feel up for it.... Let me know....

Robster xxx

Yip up for it for sure:j:j:j:j
I do not mind flying down south as can get BA at certain times for £41.00 though make it last week in Novemeber if poss

Kizzy hope he is okayxxxx mine is still crying keep going in and cuddle then leaving him no idea what the hell is going on in my life anymore

boredmarriedwithkids

Remember folks to do things with dignity and understanding!

Never ever lower your standards to anyone elses!

kizzykizzywizzy

Moneywise I'm definately thinking about me & the kids, I am not going to let him get out of paying what he has promised all along. Which will leave him with £59 a week unless he changes to the backshift ( nights ) difficult to see the kids, 4 day week & works on day off long hours on 4 days, or an evening or weekend job, so when exactly is he going to be able to see the kids & not that I care, but the moose?