Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

Night night definately going now - thanks KM you know just what to say to get me "motivated":p

scottishfreebiehunter

okay he came and fixed heating etc etc and as tampering with pc for music for ds etc
It all went crazy on laptop now,called him said pc was very important to me ,asked him to call me back said what have you done he said oh will fix wednesday use laptop,hope the biatch tutted then:D

nie kizzyxx

julie2710

Bit late joining in again tonite as been out with neighbours! Just read through fand caught up so thought a few quick comments then I'm going to bed!

SFH - I cannot belive how cruel you DH is being! What the hell is the matter with him Persobally I think it's about control and he's definitely trying to pay you back because he just thinks you've been strong and no longer need him which is why you didn't phone him for a bit.:mad: All the time he can keep you weak you need him so he's in charge - he even seems to think it's ok to use DS to achieve this and it doesn'tseem to bother him the effect he has on DS. The man is pure evil! Is the sl*t wearing the trousers in their relationship so he's having to compensate by controlling you!!!

Rikki - you're right he is an idiot and he doesn''t deserve me which I guess is why nhe no longer has me!!!

Kizzy - kids can be a pain sometimes but you're doing great now! The sex better because she hadn't had kids is gross - I know someone else whose ex said that - she just said it's not my fault you have a small !!!!!!!!!:D

Gert - Good luck with your shopping - the ball things are rubbish but rabbits are great! apparently!!:o

Great to have the smilies back at last!!!:j

Have a good night all!

scottishfreebiehunter

How you feeling Julie?xx

Well how dare the biatch tut ,anyway when asked to call back he did so hope she is squirming as ds will always be there
Hopefully if I ever get to oz:rolleyes::rotfl:i will be able to relax
watching Holly okaes not a good idea about weddings:rotfl:

gettingbetter

up date
tried speaking to him i dont get anywhere
if things havent changed by jan 5th am sorry will have to tell him to go
he has told eldest dd he wont be here much longer cause i dont want him
hope the girls are still around then cause i will need help
kas xx

gettingbetter

ps am broken hearted it has come to this
i thought my marriage vows were for life
but i cant fight this anymore
kas x

julie2710

Damn lost my reply twice now - once due to cat bringing in a live mouse and me having to catch the damn thing and throw it out and 2nd time god knows why just disappeared?
Not feeling too bad now. Got really annoyed with DH earlier as was being a complete pratt and as soon as I get him on his own we will be having some serious words about his bad attitude. What sort of man leaves a 2yr 11mth old sat crying on the toilet because he asked for his mum and his dad didn't like it?:mad: :mad:
You're right DH's tart will have to put up with DS and DH needs to develop a backbone and make sure that when DS is on the phone she either keeps her gob shut or leaves the room!!!
He probably is jealous that you're going away and him being an a**hole is the only way he knows how to deal with it!
Talking of which I've been watching Jim Davidson being interviewed by Piers Morgan! One of my friends had an affair with him years ago!! Another shining example of manhood (not):rotfl::D :rotfl:
I'm going to bed now as really tired and loads to do tomorrow!
Have a good rest and hope DS feeling a bit better tomorrow.

kizzykizzywizzy

Morning:D

Just caught up with stuff
Kas - if he won't talk to you or do anything about changing the relationship & you are so unhappy, you will be better off without him.
Jules - I can't believe he did that to your Son, my children use the I want Daddy remark all the time, when I tell them not to do something or to tidy thier room or go to bed, I don't bite & neither should he! after all he's the one who's caused this problem & who's to say DS wouldn't have just wanted you instead of him anyway!! ( nothing to do with his daddy being away ) he need to grow a thicker skin!
SFH - as long as you've got the laptop:T

Anyway must get on - not a bad nights sleep, feel OKish today, so far!
Take care x

gerturdeanna

Morning!! hehe - its Tuesday!! Whoop!!
Don't know why I'm so happy seen as DD has just pulled my curtains and rail completly of the wall..GRRR!! Oh well, add it to the list of jobs for OH to do when he gets round later.(Fix kitchen sink, put piccs back up, fix DS bed..etc etc!!) He still hasn't texted or called..whatever!!
Am looking forward to the post today!! Should get IS papers today, am makng docs appointment later for thurs (if I can), rearranging my eye test for a morning appointment instead of afternoon.
If my giro comes today, I'm going to treat myself to some new jeans and a meal out!! Jeans - cos my others you can just pull down without unbuttoning or anything and a meal -cos I feel like it!! hehe - Also means less time for me to be here with him!! haha!!
Kas - waiting till Jan is a long way away. Have you told each other specific things that you want changing? or was it just a general 'I don't like the way we are going'? Hope you get things sorted!! Oh and we will always be here - we are like bad smells - never quite go away!! hehe
I have a new name for my OH - SSS!! (Silly sl@g [EMAIL="sh@..er"]sh@..er[/EMAIL]!!) Do you like it!! hehe

kizzykizzywizzy

HI Gert kids dawdling over breakfast

Like the name SSS, I can't actually believe he hasn't rung or text you, I keep forgetting to ask & you've probably told us, where is he living at the moment??
Also did you lose the council house that you could've had??
Sorry to be nosey, but when things started to get better between you both neither of these things mattered so much!
As for jeans & meal, why not? I hadn't bought anything for myself for months & months, even the kids have only had new school uniform, whilst DFS had a load of bl**dy tshirts to take back to the ship with him:mad:
Will need to get the kids some winter clothes soon as sleeves getting too short on DD's tops & jeans getting too short DS not doing as badly as DD as friend gave me some of her DS's old jeans.
Going to get DFS cashpoint card off of him on Saturday as his wages will no longer be going into joint account Thursday, just the bit he's paying for mortgage, so no need for him to have any further access to the account!
I can't wait to get all this financial stuff sorted & to get back to being the organised person I used to be, once I know what's going on with IS it will be great. I can start budgetting & also going & getting a few bits for kids me & house without feeling like Big Brother is watching me!