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  • Rikki
    Rikki Posts: 21,625 Forumite
    Something my Sister told me today has really put me off ever getting back with DFS too.
    Her EX said to her that sex was really good with the s lag he was with because she hadn't had kids!
    Well that repulsed me & really upset her at the time, which is another reason why I would never want to know any details

    Thats a horrible thing to say. :eek:

    Its surprising how low a man will go when he's lost something he loves.
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  • Thing is Rikki, he's living in her spare room, can't get him out YET!! & has no one & she is really happy with a lovely Boyfriend, who made me a very nice bacon sandwich today, I might add!
    Comping again - wins so far : 2 V festival tix, 2 NFL tix, 6 bottles of wine, personalised hand soap, Aussie miracle conditioner :beer:

    Married my best friend 15/4/16 :)
  • He still hasn't called or texted - whatever - I really couldn't give a sh1te!! Will check out Quidco Kizzy, cheers, never thought of that!!

    Ooh and 16% at Lovehoney!!
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • Rikki
    Rikki Posts: 21,625 Forumite
    Thing is Rikki, he's living in her spare room, can't get him out YET!! & has no one & she is really happy with a lovely Boyfriend, who made me a very nice bacon sandwich today, I might add!

    I wasn't saying do as I do. :o It was just what I did. :). Hopefully you will get to that place where he only sees the children once a week or every two weeks with a sleepover and you get the space you need.

    I never had anyone to make me a bacon sandwich. :(
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  • Rikki
    Rikki Posts: 21,625 Forumite
    He still hasn't called or texted - whatever - I really couldn't give a sh1te!! Will check out Quidco Kizzy, cheers, never thought of that!!

    Ooh and 16% at Lovehoney!!

    Make sure they are not reducing the length to give you the discount. ;)
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  • haha!! I'll make sure I'm not shortchanged anymore!!
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • GeorgeUK
    GeorgeUK Posts: 7,737 Forumite
    I am, like, sooo glad i haven't a clue what you girls are on about!!!!!
    After falling off the gambling wagon (twice): £33,600 (24,000+ 9,600) - Original CC Debt: £7,885.91

    Dad Gift 6k ¦ Savings & Inv Tst: £2,500
    Loan 10k: £0 ¦ Dad 5.5k: £2,270 ¦ LTSB: £0 ¦ RBS: £0 ¦ Virgin £0 ¦ Egg £0

    Total Owed: £2,270 (+6k) 11/08/2011
  • Rikki wrote: »
    I wasn't saying do as I do. :o It was just what I did. :). Hopefully you will get to that place where he only sees the children once a week or every two weeks with a sleepover and you get the space you need.

    I never had anyone to make me a bacon sandwich. :(

    me either xxx
    thing is its sad day when company i get is the ex:rotfl:

    he has gone ,called kizzy after he left as helped me stop blubbing big time
    He went to lean and kiss me as he left then must have remebered
    Just back into comping past few months to help me get over rubbish in life.... won Hotpoint fridge freezer, soda stream
  • Hi everyone,

    been trying to keep up but there's so much to say... but nothing useful to add compared to some of the advice & stories on here.

    Went to see a solicitor today to see how to go forward. She's agreeable to represent me but thinks that I should try to keep things amicable for as long as possible. Might try and sit down with the ex to sort out maintenance and access to ds sooner rather than later.

    How are you all feeling this evening?
    Goal for 09: Get fit and foxy. target weight 11st. 5/80.
    Get out of dead end job and work for career I always wanted.
  • Well, SFH wants to kill her ex!! haha, Kizzy got flowers from her next door neighbour, and I'm searching the web for 'toys'!! for me!! as I ain't going there anymore - made my mind up that if he wants me, he has to fight for me!! He's got to fight, for the right, to PAAAAAAARRRRRRRRTTTTTTYYYYY!! haha
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
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