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  • Skint_Lynne
    Skint_Lynne Posts: 1,363 Forumite
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    Hi Kizzy,

    Have a great holiday, I didn't take my laptop home last night cause I had my visitors arriving, so no computer time last night. Uncle is away to poorly's (I hope he wasn't drunk when Uncle got there), so Auntie and wee fella came to mine, (he's a wee cutie).

    Dad picked poorly up from the hospital, but he thinks he was desperate for booze, he had no money though as my mum has taken it all to pay his bills etc. Hopefully Uncle will be able to talk some sense into him, he wants to take him to the doctor to try and get him into a rehab or something.

    Hopefully something will be sorted out. It's my wedding anniversary today, married for 1 year, DH has texted me and he phoned my mum to get me some flowers, (I was standing next to her:rotfl: ), so think of things this way, I was in exactly the same boat as you a couple of years ago and now I am getting flowers.

    Have a great holiday and will keep checking in to see how you are.

    SL xx
  • kpwll
    kpwll Posts: 4,273 Forumite
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    Happy Anniversary to you both, have a lovely day and enjoy your surprise flowers, lol. xx
  • Glad to hear blood pressure is OK. I know you probably feel fab at size 8, but please do try what the others have said and eat a little and often. I know it's sometimes impossible to swallow, but keep trying.
    Here's hoping that you come home with your bum black and blue from pinches by delectable Italian blokes.
    Really hope you have a good time and manage to relax a little.
    I must go, I have lives to ruin and hearts to break :D
    My attitude depends on my Latitude 49° 55' 0" N 6° 19' 60 W
  • Happy Anniversary SL :beer:

    Well my friends been around, had a nice chat, been to the shop to get a few bits.
    Missed a call from him on mobile, so he rang home phone asking what time I'm going to SIL, I said I don't know, later....
    He's half day today, so I bet he doesn't know what to do with himself, he was going to get his hair cut ( why tell me?? )
    Now have had a text, can I buy some trainers?! Can't exactly say no can I?
    so just sent Yes.
    Now I've got another one, saying nothing cheap enough - oh well his loss:p not replying to that, see even trainer buying he needs my help, I would normally say get a bit dearer ones then, you need them, but not today;)
    Anyway need to clean out my furry friends Hammy & Chubby:D
    back later
    Comping again - wins so far : 2 V festival tix, 2 NFL tix, 6 bottles of wine, personalised hand soap, Aussie miracle conditioner :beer:

    Married my best friend 15/4/16 :)
  • A monkey wrench! :eek: I'm sorry but any sympathy I had for his depression has well and truly legged it. If he can drop a monkey wrench on a mouse he's got no compassion for others - whether mouse or humam - IMO. I think you should wait until you come back to deal with the mouse. Odds are it's been eating the hamster food and with hamster out of way it will get browned off of nothing on the table and go and find somewhere else. If it is still there then a sonic repellant from B&Q or such like will work wonders - please don't use the poison on it - (a) it's not nice and (b) it's bad karma (kaftan moment coming on here!:D ). as for him..... I am hard pressed not to mutter something about shoving monkey wrenches........ :rotfl:

    HOWEVER, try and enjoy your holiday - mentally regard him as the grumpy old maiden aunt who you can't do anything right for and soon he will become just a bit of the furniture if he starts playing silly b........ otherwise you never know. ;) Either way just relax as much as you can. :beer:

    Rage x
    But I'm going to say this once, and once only, Gene. Stay out of Camberwick Green :D
  • hello Kizzy hope you see this before you go, very glad you had a good nights sleep and you have a mate round today excellent stuff

    Have a wonderful Holiday - smile at lots of nice men - with only a maiden aunt for company;) what else is a girl to do!

    take care hon

    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Well he'll be sleeping in with the mouse tonight!! Hope it doesn't exact revenge:rotfl:
    Yes the monkey wrench episode was awful, bought some humane traps today, but won't be able to do anything until we are back as it might get stuck in there for a week & die anyway. Mind you I have used these before & they didn't work:o
    Just going to iron a few bits that have just come off the line & all ready, bar packing toiletries that I still need.
    KM - forgot to say, when he rang earlier, I said I thought you'd rung to apologise, he said what for? I said about shouting at the kids from the minute you got here to the minute you left. I added ( as you said ) that he won't be seeing them much now, so he should make the time he does have with them, nice for them - he said "You're right"
    Comping again - wins so far : 2 V festival tix, 2 NFL tix, 6 bottles of wine, personalised hand soap, Aussie miracle conditioner :beer:

    Married my best friend 15/4/16 :)
  • Last post - just off to take hamsters around to SIL's will stay there a bit so kids can play with their cousin. Then back here with mizog!
    Thanks for everything once again :T

    Will update when we're back from hols

    Ciao xxx
    Comping again - wins so far : 2 V festival tix, 2 NFL tix, 6 bottles of wine, personalised hand soap, Aussie miracle conditioner :beer:

    Married my best friend 15/4/16 :)
  • supersavershal
    supersavershal Posts: 1,270 Forumite
    Have a great holiday Kizzy.I want to hear all about it when you get back.
    You deserve a break.
  • star-X_2
    star-X_2 Posts: 126 Forumite
    Have a fantastic time, enjoy the hunky italian men, i second that i hope you have a bruised bum from all the pinches lol. Enjoy your holiday as much as you can and more, ignore the grumpy old aunt. Hugs and safe journey. Want to hear all about it when you get back. Shame you cant find teh mouse and put it in his suitcase, that would be a hilarious sight when he got to Italy, opened his case and theres the mouse he tried to monkey wrench staring at him lol, id pay to see that. Take care and all the best. Love and hugs xxx
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