Marriage over don't know where to start

Chip_Hazard

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Chip is in the building chip, chip give us a wave, give us a wave, give us a
wave:wave: :dance:

gerturdeanna

hahahahahahaha laughing out so loud at Chip!!!!!

Keeping_Motivated

TLF1970 wrote: »

The !!!!! rang whilst he was here and I herd him tell her that it mas a mistake and should never have happened and he wanted to try to rebuild his family. He also told her that even if I did not want him back he still did not want to be with her. 5 mins later she turned up and has a slanging match with DH in front of kids.

She came round to YOUR house... YOU the wife with the children and years of history.... OMG is it not bad enough she had an affair with a married man with children? She also must think she is RIGHT to do so, absolutley no shame or guilt. Not much I can say to that other than :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

I am SO GLAD he told her its over very clearly infront of you, she deserved that more than anything. I know in these situations the Moose seems to get more stick than the man (which is not fair in sosme cases) but in this case she is lower than the average! Ok she is obviously mad at him but the VERY least she could have done is kept YOU and your children out of it :mad:

Well that was a rant! Sorry
Back to the point... he has hurt you beyond measure but in my opinion he is now doing the right thing and put her straight, moved to his sisters and says he will do what ever it takes. Its none of my business whether you give him another chance or if he deserves it thats all down to you but I am glad he has done this much to at least start the process of putting it right which must help if only a tiny fraction, only you can decide if it will ever be enough.
Good luck x

kizzykizzywizzy

Chip_Hazard wrote: »

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scottishfreebiehunter

Chip_Hazard wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Ricki Yes,yes and yes,I still love him but need to get on

TLF1970

Thankd Robster and Mismatch for your kind words/ It is gr8 to talk to people that don't know us personally. My phone is going to explode soon from all the text messages from people with an opinion.

He has phone me twice already to see how I am the kids are. He is not being at all pushy about coming home. Time will tell I suppose.

For info - he started drinking heavily last year when he lost his brother suddenly last year he was only 36. Then his sister announced to the family that their dad abused her when she was a child. No one now has contact with the dad or the mum who decided to stick by him. What a mess this family is!!!!

I too am hopeful that I will lose weight on the seperation diet - or maybe put it on if I spend my evenings eating biscuits.

I don't drink or smoke so don't really have any vices that I can cling onto.

You know who your friends ar in times like these.

Its my parents wedding anniversary today (42 years - what an achievement) so will attempt to go out to lunch and pick at my food and I will then get my kids from school instead of asking someone else to do it. They need some normallity.

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

SFH - good for you with the bike thing!
Peeing down here & no bike ( which sort of stops me doing the same:p )

right went round local park huffing and puffing but focused on staying up right :rotfl:
came back took dogs quick walk,cleaned bird cage (pets do my head in sometimes)
T w a t phoned to ask how ds was behaving ,gave me his rubbish speech again about never say never etc etc so he can go hedge his bets elsewhere
I am going to be hurting very much and at night at kills me big time as I know it does to a few of us,though need to get this mess sorted and got myself in so much of a rut that it is going to be hard to get out of ,though will start trying today.
Really dull here today though after being out on bike do not feel like smashing windows etc etc :eek::eek::eek:;)
I need the excercise anyway and need to lose weight so will try do it a few times a week.

What my husband wants I think is single life and not coming home to watching tv or whatever ,so he can have that as I am not going to argue anymore and one day he will realise what he has done and I know he will with the comments he makes etc etc and I will not be there to pick up the peaces

My ds will be getting a mega talking to tonight as not going through that anymore

scottishfreebiehunter

oh and the answer was yes to chip not ricki:eek::rotfl:no idea where that came from as she didnt post

TLF how did you keep youre calm thats menatal what a t a rt ,kizzy have a good day


Oh and wait for this one the women who i thought was my friend emailed me and said it is best that we are not friends anymore as I want youre husband and attracted to him OMFG OMFG

kizzykizzywizzy

Right I'm off out
Hope you all have a good day, well try to anyhow;)

Need to get some birthday pressys friends 40th Nephews 18th & other nephews B/day!

Back later x

Rikki

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

oh and the answer was yes to chip not ricki:eek::rotfl:no idea where that came from as she didnt post

TLF how did you keep youre calm thats menatal what a t a rt ,kizzy have a good day


Oh and wait for this one the women who i thought was my friend emailed me and said it is best that we are not friends anymore as I want youre husband and attracted to him OMFG OMFG

I'm just lurking.

Even when I'm not here your thinking about me.

I'm catching up on the posts.