Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

Chip_Hazard wrote: »

That's a bit harsh. I don't always agree with her but she's still welcome on your thread.....:p

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::p

Shineyhappy

Hi everyone!

I just wanted to say its amazing how much stronger you all seem to be getting day by day.

I think to start with the shock must be the main thing as the disbelief that your life is being turned upside down is overwhelming. I am just glad that you are all being so strong! :T

SFH, yikes I was very shocked at your classy friend :rolleyes: I am not quite sure what she expects to gain from that email, but I think by not responding you are being very grown up and restrained. Every instict tells me to email back something very rude or telling her that she is welcome to him but she will need to find another friend to leach off when he cheats on her and she needs someone elses partner to pinch.

cupid_s

bunty109 wrote: »

I'm seriously :mad: for you over this, but sadly I've been there with friends who'll dump all over you for a man :mad: :mad: Mind you, I've never had one actually warn me they were gunning for my bloke.....it's a first....

Maybe she thinks she's doing SFH a favour by not going behind her back!
She seems a weirdo really doesn't she? And is certainly a friend you could do without.

kizzykizzywizzy

Chip_Hazard wrote: »

That's a bit harsh. I don't always agree with her but she's still welcome on your thread.....:p

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: chip you're on top form today!!

scottishfreebiehunter

Getting to the bad time of day for me ,spoke to ds banned him from going out until he is politer to me and told him he will be in his own room kicking and screaming if I have to.
He is getting to the age where he is going to chance his luck anyway.

Really trying hard today but wish this heart ache will go away,yes what a sadoo but the way I feel.

bunty109

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

I am a bit upset over it now Bunty and unsure what to do as she has poured her heart out to me over her ex hubbie etc and even told me the person he was seeing was in bar at weekend.
Me to absolutely gobsmacked ,took me back a little today,though did a few things so getting there very slowly.


And K you will be out Friday night so there:p,what do you like wearing what about jeans ,boots,high heels and top ,you can never go wrong.
Please go out if only to annoy that person you are married to;)it will do you good and remember what you said to me last weekxxx

Hope youre sis is okayxxxxxx

Well you have sent me rain now to:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

not sure what to do about this email wrote one out deleted etc etc steam coming out my ears now and if i get worked up will end up in same state as last night
Oh and asked oh to put money in my bank for guitar lesson tomorrow and he did it oh the guilt:rolleyes:

Then I think the answer is to e-mail her back and ask her for her OH's mobile number so you can ring him up as you'd fancy a [EMAIL="sh@g"]sh@g[/EMAIL] off of him! She how she likes it!

Honestly, she really is a stupid b!tch!!!

gerturdeanna

Well, OH has just left, kids are in bits again, kitchen looks like a bombs hit it and we didn't really get chance to talk. He's round tomorrow at half 8 cos I am meeting the legend that is GOK WAN!!! TOMORROW!!! OMFG!!! SO EXCITED!!!
hahaha!!

Keeping_Motivated

gerturdeanna wrote: »

Well, OH has just left, kids are in bits again, kitchen looks like a bombs hit it and we didn't really get chance to talk. He's round tomorrow at half 8 cos I am meeting the legend that is GOK WAN!!! TOMORROW!!! OMFG!!! SO EXCITED!!!
hahaha!!

Gert why did he leave so early? Was that the arrangment? Or did you want him to leave? Could he have not helped you put the kids to bed and tidy the kitchen?

Gok Wan sounds fun

gerturdeanna

I always thought the arrangement was that he came round tues/thurs and stayed until he had put them to bed. Obv not!! I didn't tell/want him to leave but he said he had 'ironing' to do...!!!!!!!!! Don't care, house looks like my house again now and kids are calm watching Superwhy on Nick Jnr. Just cooking myself some pasta then kids are off to bed!

bank_of_slate

OMG!!!!
Gok Wan is my god!
give him a huge kiss from me!
...Linda xx