Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

DFS rang earlier to ask about Friday, asked how I was & the kids, spoke to DS & DD & was crying, but obviously trying not to. I asked do you want to pick them up from school? - meaning to take them to SIL's, he said, we can both go can't we? Was feeling bad earlier, but later events with sister have put this mess into context.
Sister very ill, going to have a drain put in her boob tomorrow as full of poison & she is delirious, she's worried about having it put in as wheh she had one after her cancer, she got an infection from the drip. So horrible to know she's so ill again.
On the lighter side my friend has met Gok & he called her "girlfriend" all the time, she loved him!

gerturdeanna

I hope everything goes okay with your sister tomorrow Kizzy - I'll think of her!

bunty109

Kizzy, hope your sis is ok.

Gert: love the idea of meeting Gok!!! I'm seeing Stevie Wonder on Thursday after work: he's an absolute hero of mine so I am absolutely :j :j

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks I'm sure Sis will appreciate your kind thoughts, she's got a fab B/F who really looks after her, so I'm sure she will be fine, she just keeps worrying that they will have to remove her breast, she's still got to have an op on it after this has all died down, so she's just scared. She keeps saying sorry to me bless her.

scottishfreebiehunter

Will say a prayer for youre sisxxxxxxxxxxx


Gok well he can make many look good send him up here:rotfl::D

Trying to do my super nanny bit with ds,he used to be so so good until the t i t left.
I am still not convinced he has only been seeing biatch for so little time but no point in worrying now as all done and dusted
Bunty I am ready to call the women but trying not to lol.

K life is a biatch it really is and sometimes wonder why we are on this earth

And Gerti you tell him not to begger off so quick as its not always nice clearing up stuff after kids etc etc


I HATE MEN
Back soon as supernanny G will have child in own bed screaming by 9pm:rotfl:

kizzykizzywizzy

bunty109 wrote: »

Kizzy, hope your sis is ok.

Gert: love the idea of meeting Gok!!! I'm seeing Stevie Wonder on Thursday after work: he's an absolute hero of mine so I am absolutely :j :j

I love the way you said I'm seeing Stevie Wonder after work, like you were going to pop down the pub with him:D

How brilliant - have a good time
You OK SFH??

chilli_dog

Stevie Wonder, how cool is that.

Is he just calling to say he loves you!!!!!!

scottishfreebiehunter

No really gutted again
Ds said he hates his room as reminds him of daddy and all the times they played together _pale__pale_
Anyway lights are out and told him he can listen to Harry Potter on cd so fingers crossed he is settled before long and it can go back to some sort of normality night times


Hows you?

Walshyboy84

My aunty has just been diagnosed too. Luckily they've not found any cancer anywhere else (The results are still out but they were worried it was in the Lymph glands) so I know what you're going through to an extent!

Hope everything else is cool and less rawrrr...

trancebabe

OMFG - Isn't Gok the best friend that every girl wishes she had. I love him and the umpteen names he uses to describe these (.Y.)

SFH - Maybe your DS needs a bit of time to adjust. Poor fella probably doesn't know what the hell is going on. His Dad hasn't gone away forever, but things aren't the same anymore. Is there anything you can do to change his room around and give him a fresh start too maybe? He'll be fine, just make sure that he knows you're never going to leave him.

Kizz - really hope your sis has a speedy recovery. I can't begin to tell you how much I admire you and how you handle all of the heartache which has been chucked at you recently. You're a remarkable woman

Gert - I'm glad that you can settle them quickly but fear that's a really unhealthy thing for the kids and you to be going through when they get so upset (especially if it's twice a week). Your DH needs to be there for bedtime I think - until you can sort yourselves out at least.

Much love to you ladies!
xx