Marriage over don't know where to start

Buffythedebtslayer

Ladies hope you all have good weeks this week

take care of yourselves

xxxxxx

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks Buffy, another day out of the way

You have a good week too

scottishfreebiehunter

:oback again lol

Yip staying well clear of this so called friend now and as you say MissMitch better being lonely than having friends like that,still cannot believe she said all this stuff,though had said something before that she wished she was me,bet she doesnt now.
I do not know how i didnt swing for her lol

I have virtually no one else though have people calling me and texting regular to check on how I am as far away.
Speak to Kizzy a lot and I think without that I would have done something sillyxxxxxx


My ds called him tonight on his mobile from his mobile my son got spoken to like a fool basically and then got told he was in bed and my son could hear the t ar t in the background:eek:they had hangover seemingly
All in all yes I love him very much(more fool me)but no way will my son be getting treated like this because of some w h !re ,there are going to be strong guidelines from now on regarding phone calls and if he doesnt like it tough.

kizzykizzywizzy

SFH
Hi there have just been lookig at PM's before I go to bed.
In bed:eek: how awful for DS & you

I know you love him, but surely the thought of him & the buck toothed w h o a r e

The thing is with your Ex knob is that he is sending you mixed messages, too, from what you've told me, which like I was feeling, makes you think theres a chance of getting back together, I just wonder if he's just keeping his options open just in case the ugly biatch dumps him

verysillyguy06

I must admit...it comes back for me ...men are needing to know who is boss..and they need clear messages...even if they are in your cases obviously incapable of being clear themaselves....i believe any person/guy who does the things you all describe...is ...hedging his bets...dont want to be alone you see...we need some one to bring the meat home too...to bring the prey back...no change since cavemen time....stay strong would be my advice...but do listen to your gut feeling...but for heaven's sake...3-4 chances are really plenty...be the force with you...x

scottishfreebiehunter

I agree with you bothxxxxxxx

time for me to be tougher now and take his money every month and have a good life for my son and I,she is one dirty dirty wh!!e and one day I will get my revenge ,not sure how etc but my day will come,him well he has lost the most precious thing in the world,his son!!!he will see him but my ds is not going to take his crap for ever
There has been other issues with my health etc and not wanting to put on a forum and hence why kizzy has been a rock for me,and when you go out to try and forget and last night well who needs enemies eh?

K tonight is the end for me ,Yes I love him so much but nah dirty scumbag can be our caretaker on house as still half his but that will be it and going to be strict rules of when he speaks to ds and he either likes it or lumps it.

kizzykizzywizzy

I'm still here!! I must go to bed

SFH - I think you've turned a corner tonight, ok you will weaken from time to time like I do, BUT I think it's the way to go if you don't want to be hurt any more than you have been already
Take Care & you know I'm here for you whenever friend xxxx

verysillyguy06

sfh...thats the right way...it is not using your kids in any way,shape or form...this is how you protect them...stay strong and do that...and keep in mind...he has lost all...he has ...he will get his comeback...even if it is years later...just imagine who can ever trust him/her???? both will be looking over their shoulder for years to come...ever...and your children?? they will see him as the scum he is...later for sure...x

julie2710

Feeling a bit odd today. OH has obviously been staying here for the last week - despite last weekends discovery. He came in last night, had his tea - god knows why I cooked for him? Then ran a bath and complained that his son needed to go in the bathroom to clean his teeth before bed - poor kid's only 2yrs 10mths!!!!:mad: Hardly spoke to his son or me at all. He went to bed straight after his bath.

This morning I thought I might get an extra 1/2 hour and that maybe the OH could spend some time with his son as he had ignored him last night. Don't know what was going on but little boy just kept coming into me crying and miserable. When I got up OH was doind his ironing as he said I had obviously left all his - think himself lucky I washed it!!!

Anyway he's said he's moving out next Saturday! I'm glad he'll be out the way as the atmosphere is really bad and son must pick up on it. Don't know whether I should be in the house or not when he's getting out - don't want him taking anything he shouldn't as wouldn't get it back!!??

I was sick all morning and still feeling a bit sick now. Seeing the cons in the morning to book in for c-section. Should be a couple of weeks.

Feeling awful!
Jules

scottishfreebiehunter

Thanks guysxxxxxxxxxx

he can have his scummy life that he seems to need,no he aint the man I was married to,he is acting like some low life slime ball,thing is when she is not there he is so so so so nice :rolleyes: will treat him they way he deserves and his my ds has found it hard enough so no he will not carry on in this manner so he can basically either do as I say or not be involved