Marriage over don't know where to start

Keeping_Motivated

Its good he has gone to see his parents coz it might mean he is starting to face reality now he is not still able to act out the 'family' role with you and the kids anf kind of deny the 'real' situation.
Maybe he is getting a huge dose of REALITY... fingers crossed anyway.

kizzykizzywizzy

She's probably cooked him lunch!!

She's also a bit - I don't like to get involved!! which is annoying, but as I say they are elderly & it must be very upsetting for them, she said to me it doesn't sound like my son, which is very true!

Keeping_Motivated

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

She's probably cooked him lunch!!

Not the same as never being able to eat in your OWN home though!

Keeping_Motivated

His parents might not get involved but he will have been absolutley cringing at the thought of going no doubt still.

Kizzy is it still bugging you that you think he lied before? You are not going to ring or text though are you?

Just checking

kizzykizzywizzy

He must be so bored & miserable, what has he got now?
Children he'll see a few times a week
No money
A job, he used to like - but now says he hates!!
No home
Hardly any friends
Family who think he's the pits
Me who has told him he's the lowest form of pondlife ever, but used to adore him.

kizzykizzywizzy

Yes, it's really bugging me, NO I WON'T ring or text - promise.

It does annoy me though, that he thinks I'm too thick to do 1471!

Keeping_Motivated

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Yes, it's really bugging me, NO I WON'T ring or text - promise.

It does annoy me though, that he thinks I'm too thick to do 1471!

But what would be his point in lying? why would he not want you to knowhe was already there? Maybe he didn't want to tell you so that you wouldn't think he had gone to his mums and was still thinking of you instead of sitting talking to them?

cupid_s

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

He must be so bored & miserable, what has he got now?
Children he'll see a few times a week
No money
A job, he used to like - but now says he hates!!
No home
Hardly any friends
Family who think he's the pits
Me who has told him he's the lowest form of pondlife ever, but used to adore him.

And you have:
Your beautiful children - almost all the time
All your joint friends and family who now think he's a t*sser
Your home
And us :rotfl:

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks guys - you are all so important to me :A
I'm so glad I've got you:D

gerturdeanna

Am a bit peeved off today. Tonight is his night to have the kids and my mum doesn't think I should be here - she thinks I should be at her house and letting him do whatever with the kids. I think the time when they have gone to bed could be spent trying more to sort stuff out.
It just hurts that just as I seemed to be getting things sorted on this level, my family level gets screwed up.