Marriage over don't know where to start

verysillyguy06

Sadly...but i have met some women behaving like this too...i must admit ..more often men...but think on that..if no woman would not continue an affair once she found out the man is married...would that not change things???

and of course the other way too...

ekk_3

A couple of good ones to screech to when ur in a bad mood.............

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=dR6mEu5-egA

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=VoYXzFblq6g

ekk_3

glad it made you smile sfh

GeorgeUK

Jules - you have nothing to be ashamed of . You haven't done anything. Don't make excuses for him or lie on his behalf.
Glad the baby's alright but you seem totally stressed out. Wish there was something we could do to lessen the pain.

I remembered this song yesterday, but didn't want any tears - may as well put it up as it seems to be karaoke night.
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=cF1KpMOvxDI

Take care.

robster1964

verysillyguy06 wrote: »

Sadly...but i have met some women behaving like this too...i must admit ..more often men...but think on that..if no woman would not continue an affair once she found out the man is married...would that not change things???

and of course the other way too...

Women of course behave like this too.... To me it is unusual for a woman........

Grief, if I found out a man that I had a relationship with, had a partner, I would absolutely not accept it.

But i am 44, in a 20 year relationship, with 5 kids between us.....

We have had major probs, around sex, perceiving old age, grief, we both think we are still the rock stars we were when we were 18........

Difference is, I know I still have it, I know he still has it! (to me!) But I know we are working every god damn hour of the day, to secure our future........

Now after reading this thread..........Who do you think is more likely to stick with this perception of the future? I think it is me....,.., He is working so hard.......... I know it, but his only focus is getting away from it all (THE STRESS)..............


I love my man but the harder he works, the more selfish he gets, the more I put myself out to make his life easier..........

Believe me, to me this is just a challenging phase.... I will support my man forever. But it is the same for men?

That's why i think it isn''t....... Men may take the easy out, and go for the available sex.....

I am prob wrong, but I have this deep down belief, that sex comes before anything to men

I truly wish i felt differently....

Gotta goe

Robster xxx

tesuhoha

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Thanks Robster watched Evita today, whilst ironing, maybe not the jolliest of films, but love the songs & was singing away to it & drooling over Antonio Banderas.
Just singing along now to a bit of Babs Streisand whilst I post on here & email a couple of friends
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=bdQ6o9Aig9o

I like your taste in music kizzy. Love Barbra. Love that song. Here's another great song and if you're in the mood for a classic weepie movie you couldn't do much better than this:


http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=GNEcQS4tXgQ

Also, here's my personal favourite Streisand song

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=Zv1SQFgfPR8

tesuhoha

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vw5Vcnjv5Bo
another soppy song


Jules honest ((()))(()(()(()) for you I am so glad baby is okay and nothing is worth youre baby being ill,especially that scum of a husband

Yes, I too like this song.

I love this song. It has a strange sad beauty. One of my favourites

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=-M71ZyUMbkc

tesuhoha

This one is the ultimate heartbreaker. Don't listen to it if you are feeling fragile.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=YMWt1vrKXbc

tesuhoha

And I might be weird but this one. Old but one of the most beautiful love songs ever. The words just sum it all up.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=o53oM6hCJSA

tesuhoha

Love all this old stuff. Dont know if you will get it.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=liyiT_DGREA

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=IpKCIjBajNA