Marriage over don't know where to start

jay11_2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xv6lHwWwO3w

or this, the lyrics are so apt

ETA: so glad baby is OK Jules

Keeping_Motivated

Awe Jules what an awful time for him to do this to you. Hugs for you.

Does he want to try again with the relationship?

scottishfreebiehunter

:(:(Jules you tell her the truth and please stay calm as you and that baby more ipmortantxxxxxxxx


It is so b l o o d y hard and I really do no know how I can get through this as feel so alone xxxxxxxx

julie2710

No. Hasn't even said he was sorry. Just said he didn't want to hurt me, which basically means he didn't want to get caught!
I don't even know if I could firgive him if he did? How much respect can he have for me, or his son, or the new baby if he can go off for a dirty weekend with his tart when I'm 31wks pregnant and then I only find out 4 weeks later?

julie2710

You're not alone SFH! Why are men so bloody pathetic and week! If we treated them the way they treat us they'd all be throwing themselves off bridges! We might feel down and lonely at times but in general we are better at picking ourselves up and I'm sure we'll all come through this in the end.
One of my friends said there's no way that him and his little t**t will last and then when he's sat in his little rented flat thinking about the nice home he deserted and the sons he's left behind it'll be him feeling lonely.

ekk_3

Probably not a good one for a money saving website................

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=Chmnh3D4r6g

scottishfreebiehunter

No for sure you and youre kids are more important for now and this scumbag and his w h !re let them wrot in hell as what goes around etc et c


We are the ones left feeling like !!!!

Keeping_Motivated

julie2710 wrote: »

No. Hasn't even said he was sorry. Just said he didn't want to hurt me, which basically means he didn't want to get caught!
I don't even know if I could firgive him if he did? How much respect can he have for me, or his son, or the new baby if he can go off for a dirty weekend with his tart when I'm 31wks pregnant and then I only find out 4 weeks later?

God I find it distressing enough that people cheat when they have children but the way some of them react after they are caught almost seems worse. So cruel

scottishfreebiehunter

:Dekk that made me smile

robster1964

verysillyguy06 wrote: »

In a nut shell....there is no excuse...we are then only thinking of 'sex' not sure i would agree with what rikki i think said...i would think that it is more often the sex that starts a man having an affair the lust for the other woman, not the listening to his problems...well not if it is longer than a couple of hours.......I would let him sleep in the garage in the car...but not in your house.......not until he sorts his head out...no way !!!!!!!
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he need to acknowledge the affair properly...tell you he is stopping...as a first step...sorry...but men mostly only understand the law of the jungle..u are too nice to him.....STOP IT !!!

opps.......dont mean it that loud.hardly know this thread yet...sorry...

Omg..... Mate you just said exactly what i THINK, but sometimes dare not say directly....... SEX SEX SEX......

I always think of the law of the jungle, and attribute it to life.......... (that's why I sometimee seem so hard, but also protective!)

Sex is a powerful tool............Use it to your advantage...... If and when u need to...........

However, as all women know....... shoes and handbags are equally as important................. JUST AS IS FAMILY, FINANCE, WORK, LIFE RELATIONSHIPS...................

Geez, I am starting to stress a bit, cos of my percieved differences between men and women....

Gonna hit the sack,

Girls I am thinking about you, always, and I am willing strength and resolve to u all....

Thanx to all guys that r posting too..... u r annoying me in one breath, but endearing me in another. Basically, I am learning stuff, I thought I was too old to learn.....

Nite all...........

Robster xxx