Marriage over don't know where to start

gerturdeanna

OK - I am posting this grimacing cos I know what you are going to say...we're going to try again, please don't be angry at me!!! I know what he has done and I will never forget but I can forgive - it was a blip and I WILL NOT LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN!! He won't have a knob next time!!
I know that things have not been good between us for a longtime and I seriously hope and pray that this time round they go right!
And I've just had the best sex ever!!!
Sorry!! Had to tell you all and again I hope you aren't angry at me!!
I'll still be here everyday!! Reading and posting and if it all goes !!!! over tit again, I hope you will stil be here to support me as I am to everyone else.
Maybe I am having weak feelings but I do love him and I truly believe that he loves me!! But as we have agreed, one step at a time!!
Thanks for listening to me and I will be here still every day!!!

elantan

gert i just wish you every happiness ....only you know what is right for you and no-one has the right to tell you otherwise

Keeping_Motivated

Gert... Go for it, if it doesn't work out at least you won't have regrets that you never tried and if it does work then thats a bonus for you and the children. I think people can get over one infidelity if they try hard enough and its 100% what they want, not easy but can be done..

I think most of us will be pleased for you, this thread has always been about whats best for each individual coz each situation is different although similar in content.

KM x

kizzykizzywizzy

gerturdeanna wrote: »

OK - I am posting this grimacing cos I know what you are going to say...we're going to try again, please don't be angry at me!!! I know what he has done and I will never forget but I can forgive - it was a blip and I WILL NOT LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN!! He won't have a knob next time!!
I know that things have not been good between us for a longtime and I seriously hope and pray that this time round they go right!
And I've just had the best sex ever!!!
Sorry!! Had to tell you all and again I hope you aren't angry at me!!
I'll still be here everyday!! Reading and posting and if it all goes !!!! over tit again, I hope you will stil be here to support me as I am to everyone else.
Maybe I am having weak feelings but I do love him and I truly believe that he loves me!! But as we have agreed, one step at a time!!
Thanks for listening to me and I will be here still every day!!!

Gert, I'm thrilled for you & certainly not angry, not one bit. ( Though I'm a bit jealous about the sex :rotfl: )
Don't put up with any carp though!! Not that I think you would for one second:D You are a very strong woman:p
Thanks for all the chats & support & if you ever do need me for anything you've got my number, you've been a great friend to me & after all this I think we'll be friends for ever!
Good Luck I'm really rooting for you & if he so much as looks at another woman I shall be up there sorting him out, by the way as tempting as it may be to cut it off with a blunt intrument, it's better to cut it off with a shap one as apparently it's more difficult to sew back on ( no idea where I got that bit of useless info from )

elantan

then your meant to pickle it to preserve it ...but really the vinegar damages it more and makes it unviable ...i think i learned that on c.s.i lol

Ellidee

elantan wrote: »

then your meant to pickle it to preserve it ...but really the vinegar damages it more and makes it unviable ...i think i learned that on c.s.i lol

El :eek: :rotfl: I've heard of an acid tongue BUT .....

gerturdeanna

Must buy some pickling vinegar in then - just in case!!! Don't think I'll need it though and after trying it again - pickling it would be a shame!! haha!!
He deleted her number in front of me and hasn't spoken to her since Monday and then that was only to find out how the other bloke was. We did have a good long talk before we decided. And we both kept asking each other if we were sure and I'm like YES!!! JUST DO IT!!! hahahahaha!!!

gettingbetter

gert wishing you all the best

kizzy glad you had a good time away sorry he is still being a pain

sfh hang in there your a fighter

and everyone else wellllllllllll you know we will all live to fight another day
kas xx

Ellidee

Gert just wanted to wish you all the very best for a fresh start with your OH XX

kizzykizzywizzy

elantan wrote: »

then your meant to pickle it to preserve it ...but really the vinegar damages it more and makes it unviable ...i think i learned that on c.s.i lol

mmm love pickled onions but pickled $%%_pale_