Marriage over don't know where to start

trancebabe

*does a runner with a hazelnut whirl!
*sniggers

trancebabe

Nice to see you Pam!

I hope he's not telling Porkies... I guess all you can do is monitor it as you've said... but it does sound fishy for sure!

Best Wishes

kizzykizzywizzy

Pam I hate to say this, but keep an eye on him!
Who deletes all thier texts?? I know I don't & nor did DFS before all this happened, also he used to leave his phone around & suddenley he never did, had to sneak a peak, whilst he was in the shower & found as you did no texts at all no calls at all, no names I didn't recognise, but could always be under a name you know, so you don't realise.
Also Sister said ring him on his phone to see if it's on silent - it never was before, so i rang him & it buzzed in his pocket & I watched as he sneaked into the bathroom to answer it!
All these things were so obvious, but at the time I didn't want to hear it & got really annoyed with my Sister, as everytime i accused him he got nasty.
I really hope it is nothing, for your sake, it just sounds so suspicious, kids don't make those sort of things up & as he hasn't got an innocent explanation, something doesn't sound right.
Take care xx

OberonSH

Well done pam, it can be tough to put someone on the sopt like that. Have you tried telling him that if there's a problem, you'd rather he talk to you about it?

Kiz - sounding like a kick a33 day for you. Well done. Don't feel like you can't have a bad day though, just remember these times when you felt like to can conquer the world and try to feel like that again. If that makes sense.

SFH - you too rock. You're doing better than you think, and things can only get a wee bit better, every day. Leave that bottle after 1 glass, put on an excersize DVD and dance that man right out of your hair. And get a bit trimmer too.

Trance - get your theiving mitts off that orange cream. Mine.

bubbs

Kizzy,
That is terrible i am so sorry about your sister and mum .well just everything.
My sister didnt even get the house he wouldnt move out and she couldnt stay there any longer he was terrible to her ......., she came to live with me and OH for 18 months he even took the valves out of the tyres on the car that was parked infront of our house, he thought we wouldnt be able to sort it as we didnt drive but guess what.........we did!!, [EMAIL="sl@g"]sl@g[/EMAIL] is now living in the house with him.......

cupid_s

Pam
I agree it does sound a bit fishy. But I dream things and then accuse people of doing stuff that happened in my dream because I really think it's real. So I'm sure a child could do the same - I hope so anyway. Though I find it strange that someone would have no messages at all in their inbox or outbox - I'd suspect they'd been all deleted recently. All you can do is keep an eye on things though.

Glad to see you chirpier kizzy.
SFH - enjoy your wine and some krispie cakes and hope you're happier tomorrow.

And... I didn't think people actually liked the nutty chocolates. Eurgh! The strawberry creams are the best by far

kizzykizzywizzy

Pam, can you get an itemised bill for his phone??
I tried to get one for DFS, but he'd changed the password on his phone & they wouldn't give me the password reminder, tried doing it online too, but the told me ( pretending to be him ) to call grrr :mad: I was hoping they'd send the reminder in the post or by email, because I'm bound to know what the password is. I suppose I could get a man to ring up for me, but to be honest I've sort of passed all that now.
Bubbs there are some evil people out there, you can't really believe how evil until you get the treatment from them! Sounds like your "nice sister" is well rid.
Oberon & Cupid - urgghhhhh:eek: :eek: I usually throw the orange, strawberry & coffee creams away, so you are welcome to them, any pralines left???

kizzykizzywizzy

Cupid sometimes dreams feel so real, it's been very much like that lately.
But years ago I had a dream that someone spat in my face & I punched DFS in my sleep really hard :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: I also used to sleep walk when I was younger & would wake up in the morning with spoons & things in my bed!

scottishfreebiehunter

:hello:back again feeling ever so slightly better though my head still in a turmoil.
I had a friend of us both well who knew oh first on phone and she wanted me to go out for something to eat Saturday and tbh I cannot ,as last week had good time but still came home to empy lonely house etc
Oh god here I go again think I need to not post as depressing myself:eek:

kizzykizzywizzy

Hi SFH, I know what you mean, I've been out a couple of times the BBQ & around friends Sisters when I didn't really want to go & both times I've really enjoyed myself & bored everyone to death with my tales of woe:rotfl: & once that was out the way, had a laugh.
It will do you good, & much better to come home to the empty house than to be sitting in it alone;)
Don't you dare stop posting, it gets it out of your system