Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

What a bl**dy idiot, drink driving:eek:
I certainly wouldn't be asking him to take the kids with him, I wouldn't trust him.
SFH - you sound like you are doing alright today, I'm sure it makes you feel much better when DS is happy;)

scottishfreebiehunter

Thats okay gerti not youre faultxxxxxxx


Cheers K ,when we went out it was like we were a family again,yes we still are to an extent but ds happy happy and now watching last of Liverpool game as much as he is meant to be sleeping:rotfl:

Have to be strong for sure KM I dare say will come across many more hurdles but will get there

gerturdeanna

I know but I'm still sorry - I really should think before I post!!

kizzykizzywizzy

No He Should Have Thought Before He Drove!!!

Chip_Hazard

Not quite the same but the boys mum dated a drink driver once. He'd been banned for two years for his first offence ( might have been wayyyy over the limit or knocked someone down maybe ) and he drove the boys from Weymouth to Bristol to take them all on holiday while still serving his ban. He'd also driven them back from Keynsham to Bristol one day when he'd had seven pints and half a bottle of wine.

I tried shopping him the next day but it's pointless, the police needed to have caught him at it which is easier said than done...:mad:

gerturdeanna

Next time, I'll just let my dad know and call in some favours!! I won't allow it anymore!!

gerturdeanna

Obv this is a very bad subject in all respects and so I apologise again for mine and his behaviour and I shall retire to my bed and speak to you all tomorrow!! I'm sorry again!!!

kizzykizzywizzy

Night Gert - sleep well & don't keep apologising, it wasn't you;)
You have just shown us again, what a selfish, immature fool he is!!!

I'm off to bed I think, Sis going on hols tomorrow, so have just been on the phone to her.
Ex coming at 9am to look after kids whilst I go to housing dept, I bet they'll still be in bed when he gets here!
Have filled in as much as I can of income support forms, if they won't help will pop into job centre & see if they can help me. So things are moving along, even if it's a bit slow

chevalier

hi guys
Again I can only offer my sympathy and support. Gerti sorry but I would make sure you have a note of his drink driving, it is all evidence for later, if needed. And if he does decide to take the children, then 'emphasise' that he doesn't drink with them in the car, no matter what.

Kizzy hope you enjoy the 'new' old you tomorrow with your hair all done nice. I have finally had a hairdresser recommended to me, and I will be so glad to go! Good luck with Alton Towers, but don't forget NO TOUCHING or being happy families. Business like, amicable, but not a family.

SFH. Really sorry you are going through it so badly, does none of his family want to see your DS? Glad you all have friends who are rallying round.

I have an interesting question for all of you. If one of your friends had known absolutely that your OH were cheating, would you have wanted them to tell you?
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gerturdeanna

chevalier wrote: »

I have an interesting question for all of you. If one of your friends had known absolutely that your OH were cheating, would you have wanted them to tell you?
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Yes and I'm glad that they did cos thats how I found out!! And yes I have noted it into my diary about last night but I think its best if we leave that subject closed.:o