Marriage over don't know where to start

Keeping_Motivated

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

, he's just useless to be honest

We could add a few more words here for you....:p

Sounds like you are starting to remember his bad points too, in the beginning you could only see his good points as you wanted him so badly (I know part of you still does) but now, as Fidget says, them rose tinted glasses are coming off and a little of the bad stuff is seeping in too which can only help you in the process of moving on.

KM x

kizzykizzywizzy

Just little things niggled me today, he started talking to me with a mouthful of biscuit, I said whould you mind not talking to me with your mouth full, it's not a very good example to set to the kids!
The thing is I do have standards & perhaps I think I am a bit above myself, but I like the children to be well mannered & to speak nicely.
Not too much to ask

poppyg_2

Kizzy, I don't blame you for getting angry at all, it's no wonder you feel the way you do and it's his actions that have led you to feel like this

Maybe you being like this with him will give him a small snippet of feeling the sort of hurt he has caused you. Being hard on him was absolutely the right thing to do, he cannot expect you to act all happy being with him when it's his decision to have left.

He can't have you dangling on a piece of string, he either wants you or he doesn't, end of story. I for one still don't think he knows what he wants.

scottishfreebiehunter

Right people as much as this is nasty my oh was bashed today in Morrisons seemingly when he was in doing his shopping:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::T:T:T:T:T:D There is a god.


Kizzy I was in council tax place yesterday and had to sign things saying we had split up etc etc and treated like scum,I said to the lady I hope you do not ever need to go through this or you will know no all about it.

Rikki

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Just little things niggled me today, he started talking to me with a mouthful of biscuit, I said whould you mind not talking to me with your mouth full, it's not a very good example to set to the kids!
The thing is I do have standards & perhaps I think I am a bit above myself, but I like the children to be well mannered & to speak nicely.
Not too much to ask

You find as things move along the little things really start to irritate, it's normal.

There is nothing wrong with having high standards and good manners are priceless.

elona

He may not know what he wants but I know what several of us would like to give him!:mad:

A good handbagging would be the least of it!!!!

kizzykizzywizzy

Me neither poppyg - that's why I think he wanted the hug & kiss.

not up to him anymore though is it?

scottishfreebiehunter

Rikki wrote: »

You find as things move along the little things really start to irritate, it's normal.

There is nothing wrong with having high standards and good manners are priceless.

:T:TI found this last night as looked at him and said to myself you aint who i was married to.

Keeping_Motivated

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

Right people as much as this is nasty my oh was bashed today in Morrisons seemingly when he was in doing his shopping:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::T:T:T:T:T:D There is a god.

What do you mean by bashed? As in hit physically or someone hit his car? doesn't take much to confuse me

scottishfreebiehunter

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

What do you mean by bashed? As in hit physically or someone hit his car? doesn't take much to confuse me

no he went for his shopping and someone seemingly had scrapped all up his car with other car and did a bunk:rotfl::rotfl:wasnt me as no car and to far away:T