Marriage over don't know where to start

Keeping_Motivated

gerturdeanna wrote: »

OMG!! Sounds like a complete nightmare SuziQ!!
Well he's been out since 6:30 -only going out for an hour - be back before the kids go to bed!! Yeah right - still no sign of him!! He did phone an hour ago apologise for not knowing what time it was and wanting to speak to the kids - err nope!! They are in bed, fast asleep!! Oh well - am having fun flirting on Social Me on Facebook!! hehe

Poor you, he's not exactly making it easy for you to be civil/amicable when he letting the kids down.

Good for you doing some harmless flirting... Enjoy.

KM x

Buffythedebtslayer

Kizzy that is completely normal, busy keeps your mind occupied and you get things done which makes you feel better and so on. when you do feel miserable you can look round at everything you did and feel better!

sending hugs my love xxxxxxxxx

gerturdeanna

I am enjoying it!! Went out with my friend on Sun and got chatted up - oh, I already told you didn't i!! whoops

Buffythedebtslayer

Gert keep flirting! its all good confidence boosting stuffxxx

gerturdeanna

He's just got back in and he is drunk!! And he's driven!!! !!!!!!!! He says he's only had 4 pints - don't belive him!!
I've asked him to reconsider not taking the kids to Kent, he say he's going to think about it - he still says the journey is bothering him so I've said I'll go with them, no strings attached if thats what he wants. We'll see tomorrow!!
Maybe not a good idea but never mind - I've offered now.Just think it'll be good for the kids to see their nanna etc cos I've a feeling it'll be a while before they see each other again!!

scottishfreebiehunter

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

You're not stupid, its normal of course you still love him, you would be made of stone if you could just switch your feelings off just like that. You won't even notice at the moment but you are doing so well getting through your days one by one and have done so much positive considering what you are going through.

KM x

thnx xxx not feeling very positive tonight though I know I have been getting through so much lately

My ds is happy tonight as enjoying school,got new tv as was watching portable since other one broke weeks ago:rotfl:and saw his daddy:rolleyes: so keep telling myself staying strong for him

scottishfreebiehunter

gerturdeanna wrote: »

He's just got back in and he is drunk!! And he's driven!!! !!!!!!!! He says he's only had 4 pints - don't belive him!!
I've asked him to reconsider not taking the kids to Kent, he say he's going to think about it - he still says the journey is bothering him so I've said I'll go with them, no strings attached if thats what he wants. We'll see tomorrow!!
Maybe not a good idea but never mind - I've offered now.Just think it'll be good for the kids to see their nanna etc cos I've a feeling it'll be a while before they see each other again!!

:eek::eek::eek: Not the right person to talk about drunk drivers anything over the limit then should throw away the key was my uncle was killed by a drink driver many years ago.
Personally totally irresponisble,sorry gerti xxxxxxxxx I hate it
You make sure youre kids and you alright xxxx

annamc75

If he has been drink driving should you not be reporting him to the police? If he can do it once he can do it again - maybe next time with the kids in the car.

What would you say to anyone else who knew that they were drink driving - think of all those out there who have made the choice not to drink who end up being victims of a selfish b*stards actions.

I couldnt live with myself if I knew that someone was drink driving.

Sorry but 4 pints is WAAAYYYYY over the limit.

Ax

gerturdeanna

I know!! I know!! My dads a copper and I know all about drunk drivers!!! If he does it again, I will shop him cos it is soooooo not good!!! For anyone!!

gerturdeanna

And apologies if I've upset anyone by bringing up bad memories etc!