Marriage over don't know where to start

dotstar24

MIL wasn't married to him!!!! i'm sure she'd run a mile if her hubby treated her like that.

can't blame us mothers though for loving our sons eh?

Keeping_Motivated

Kizzy we've all been saying it since the beginning of the thread but I must say again how amazing/strong and dignified you are and have been.

I know there has been some debate over the 'bonus' night and I definately see both sides. If you could have the bonus and feel empowered enough to say thanks very much and now you've cheated on the Moose too I hope she feels how I did then that is one thing. I wouldn't agree with continually sleeping with him but that isn't even an issue coz its so obvious you would never go down that road. And from your last few posts I think you are rapidly going off him anyway.

Keep your head up high even throughout all the shock and what you said the other night under the influence you have never done yourself down, you should be really proud, keep it up. Maybe tonight he was grumpy coz you seem to not be as needy of him and its unnerving him a liitle?

KM x

dotstar24

MIL wasn't married to him!!!! she only hear's one side of the story and she's biased.

don't be hasty?! what to move on, prove to him what he's missing cos of his no good, pessimistic, sarcastic outlook on life?? i know what i'd say........


BRING IT ON MOTHER!!!!

scottishfreebiehunter

kassy I was like that last week and still cry but once you start the ball rolling and realize what they have done to us it hurts like hell but the light starts to shine so to speak

kizzykizzywizzy

Could be thinking that KM
Spoke to my friend today & she said - with the mixed signals etc, it doesn't sound as if he knows what he wants. Tell me about it:rolleyes:

MIL was saying, he'll realise one day & I said Yes, but it will be too late & even if I did take him back, it would be so much harder for him than originally, when I would've done anything to have him back, I wouldn't put up with all this moody crap, he'd have to go to the doctors & we'd have to go to councilling or something like that, so would be worse for him.
SIL said he'll have to move out soon, back to his Mum & Dad's will take him about 40 mins to walk to work & they are in thier late 70's. So looks like he's going to get the fun single life he's craving.

dotstar24

KM is right. the minute u show them u don't need them, the minute they turn their heads and think woaaah....where's all my power gone?

anway kizzy i am dotstar (becki). i've been round the block a block a bit and hope u don't mind my no nonsense approach. you sound like you're getting to that point one day where you'll look at him and think 'my god why did i bother' it'll come with time and the moment it does you'll feel so empowered with your life and your future without him. you may not be there yet. but trust me sweets it will come. xxxx

scottishfreebiehunter

If mine comes in here tomorrow and starts treating it like his own house then god forbid
I am in control have all signed from solicitor etc etc and he is my caretaker as ds said:eek::rotfl:

ds light all out he had a wee tantrum but that was it ,he managed to read his book tonight so things looking up slightly

I know what you mean kizzy its as if did or do we really know you etc

dotstar24

don't get me started on tantrums. i had a belly full of them from my 3yr old going on 13 yr old this wkend. not good. thought it was called the terrible two's??? not terrible 3's-onwards.....oh wait yeah i've got the teen yrs to get him though....b*ll*cks!

well whats the worst that can happen *an asbo and a pregnant girlfriend dotstar*

......where's the valium??!?!?!

kizzykizzywizzy

I just don't understand him, Sunday really nice, back to normal him today grumpy him!
I wonder whether he's spoken to the moose today & that makes him like this??
Stupid man has completely messed his life up, he thought he was unhappy before - he hasn't touched how unhappy he is going to be!

scottishfreebiehunter

What goes around etc etc and I cannot wait until mine is squirming and he has crabs or something
sorry very angry tonight though ds settled and trying to bite my tongue
Its odd he was never like that as i said and said he would never etc now turned into a complete loser