Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

kassytbag wrote: »

Guys, i just wanted to say thanks for all the support - today has been one of the worst - i decided to drive over to his office and confront him and other woman - just wanted to look her in the eyes - boy was he mad - but i kept my dignity - went into the board room sat opposite both of them and asked them how they slept at night - he lied thru his teeth to her telling her that we hadnt slept together for months and kept saying i was clearly nuts and needs urgent psychiatric help - she fell for it hook line and sinker - clearly they are madly in love and me and the kids and her husband and son are just a problem to be solved and moved on from - could not beleive his complete lack of emotion to me - but seeing how he lied thru his teeth has made me realise that i am better off without him - after 22 years together 20 married i dont know this man at all - then he comes round tonight to go through finances and blows a gasket about me getting a solicitor - i really want to hang him out to dry - am completely exhuasted now but know i will be awake around 4 again - i hope he sleeps well!

:T:T:T:T:T:Twell done youxxxx

It must have been hard for you,though at least you kept youre dignity!!!
Oh yes they will have filled there heads with absolute rubbish for sure,but you will be the winner in the end and yes time to take him to the cleaners,it helps honest when you know the mortgage and monies being paid etc

scottishfreebiehunter

Oh and in the cold light of day a few months down the line hopefully all of them will have VD etc

kizzykizzywizzy

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

Oh and in the cold light of day a few months down the line hopefully all of them will have VD etc

As long as he didn't give it to me :eek:

I'm off to bed

Have a good evening - hope you all sleep well x

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

As long as he didn't give it to me :eek:

I'm off to bed

Have a good evening - hope you all sleep well x

:eek::eek: No they will get it and there d!!!s will wrot away:rotfl::T

Night will be going soon also as have cleaning to do in morning,so the rat bag can see I aint falling apart

dotstar24

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

Oh and in the cold light of day a few months down the line hopefully all of them will have VD etc

or a screaming case of herpes perhaps?? now wouldn't that be awful..?

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

SuziQ

Kassy I hope they have a lifetime of mistrust between them .My husbands ex slept around all the time they were together,had affairs with various neighbours and workmates and eventually ended up marrying one of her neighbours-who had also left his wife and moved in with another woman,before cheating on her with my hisbands ex! We hear from a friend of a friend who keeps in touch with her that she is absolutely on a leash with him now as she has already 'played away' plus there have been constant arguments where she has accused him of being 'too friendly' with customers(they run a village shop.) It seems neither of them can trust the other-as the old saying goes,what goes around comes around.

My husband/ex hasn't (as far as I know!) cheated on me romantically but has lied about just about everything else but mainly money.I have had a constant stream of bailifs,visits from the Inland revenue etc.He has falsified signatures on loan forms..................
He has had some really bad experiences over the last few weeks of people lying to him and has told me all about it,fully indignant.This has also led to him being owed a lot of money. He was not impressed when I simple murmured 'now you know how it feels..........!' (cue storming out the room and slamming of doors!)

Oh yes,what goes around comes around.

What I find most hurtful is that I now no longer know how much of our lives together was a lie-and I expect that's how many of you good folk feel,too.

gerturdeanna

Another day girlies and I have woken hangover free again.
Going back to a current theme yesterday about grumpiness. Thats all mine seems to be at the moment, grumpy!! I do think it is starting to sink in what he has done and whats happening. He still hasn't spoke to his boss re taking the same days off etc and he leaves next week. He's only got today to sort it out really as he is away then until Sunday and then I want him gone on Monday!! If he doesn't speak to them today, I will speak to his boss tomorrow myself!! I need to know what days he is having off, cos I need to plan 'nice treats' for myself on those days!!
Going to be raining here today again so indoor stuff planned for the kiddies, playdo and sticky stuff etc. And I've got to call all our creditors and found out which are joint and how much is stil owing etc, then I can carry on with CCCS and get my debts sorted!!
Have fun today guys!!

greeniegirl

hI gerturdeanna
no offence but maybe there's a better way than talking to your ex's boss? I can see how your annoyed (and i agree fully) but going into someone's workplace and asking their boss about their time off would cause you more damage than good. His boss wouldn't appreciate knowing his set up and he wouldn't want the interference either.You could come out of it one down - the boss would say he can't tell you and your ex would have a go at you and not cooperate in future.
I know how I'd react if anyone in my personal life went into my workplace and spoke to my boss. And that's with no disrespect to you or your situation!

Have a good day!

kizzykizzywizzy

Morning Gert
Have a nice day with the kiddies, not raining here yet..............

Had a good sleep again - this is getting easier, whereas EX looks more & more miserable & tired! I just wonder why he's so miserable, when he says he's happy!
Stress free day today, I hope as not seeing him

gerturdeanna

His boss is our dd's godfather and is a friend as well as his boss, but yes I can see where you are coming from. Oh well, if he doesn't sort it out, he doesn't see the kids...end of!!