Marriage over don't know where to start

Buffythedebtslayer

Kizzy Good Luck!!

Am thinking of you lots hon xxxxxxxxxxxxx

will be checking in later
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tudorfan22

keeping everything crossed for you kizzy!

kizzykizzywizzy

It's a no goer I'm afraid, I don't know what is going on in his mind, he said he's planning to be with her & that he didn't say they'd finished !!!!!!! He did!!!
I'm devastated, but that's it now, he's strung me along & given me hope.
My daughter said hold mummys hand in toys r us & he did, what sort of signal do you think that gave me?
Then as he went he has the cheek to say, shall I still come tomorrow?
So I've been sobbing my heart out, & I hope he is too

scottishfreebiehunter

OMFG kizzy I am so so sorry for youxxxxxxxxxxxx
will call you later though if you are not up to it will call tomorrow
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my oh sat had dinner and left but had to be strong for ds then he went to kiss me on way out door as think he forgot what he was doing:rolleyes:

Keeping_Motivated

Oh hun I feel awful for you. Is he stupid?! Something must have gone on in the last couple of days with the Moose do you think, with him saying they were finished then not?

Can't believe he has left you in that state! Are the children in bed?

KM xxx

Tesco_points_addict

Aw kizzy hun xxx
At least you know now and can start to move on

A lot of men find it difficult to break ties, my x other half was a complete plonker, its so much easier for them to string you along....just in case....

My thoughts are with you and your children...and for what its worth I think you deserve better, you too will realise this in the months to come xx

TPAx

Rikki

I'm so sorry.

It sounds like its time for you to decide what you want and what is best for the children.

Personally I wouldn't have him calling around all the time. It's going to make things harder for you and the children.

Is he only doing it because he doesn't want to be on his own. Would he be different if he could see her when he wanted?

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzy I do not know what to say I really dont just please get the kids to bed and pour yourself a drink ,yes i know not the answer but please stay calm

scottishfreebiehunter

Rikki wrote: »

I'm so sorry.

It sounds like its time for you to decide what you want and what is best for the children.

Personally I wouldn't have him calling around all the time. It's going to make things harder for you and the children.

Is he only doing it because he doesn't want to be on his own. Would he be different if he could see her when he wanted?

this is it my oh comes here to see ds and very very hard

pania

oh kiz sweetheart i've followed this right the way through, i really hope that you maintain the strength of heart and character that you have displayed throughout. you have to look after you and the children now, build that fence around your heart and protect it. find the strength in your children and close family and don't allow him to get beneath that barrier unless you KNOW that he means it.
lots of love
p
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