Marriage over don't know where to start

Pinkylouloubell

Hello everyone,

Hope you are all doing OK today.

Kizzy - I hope everthing goes well for you tonight when your OH comes around.
I have butterflies in my tummy for you.
Kind of remember all the feelings you get when this happens.

Gert- WOW, I just love Gok, he really makes me chuckle, are you in the audience or actually on the show??
and congrats to you for your new hair do, hope it makes you feel amazing!

Greeniegirl- I have been in counselling for 2 years now and started when I was at a very low part in my life, and although I think I will always have certain issues, I feel much more positive now and look at things so differenly.
I think its all about getting a totally unbiased opinion and being able to say things you never ever thought you would.

Good Luck to all you girlies, Ive become quite addicted to this thread over the last couple of weeks and feel as if Im going through it all with you.

Pinky,XX

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks Guys
I haven't heard from him today, but have given the house a real good spruce up & cleaned the hamsters out, so kept myself occupied.
need to sort me out now, hair looks terrible & I've got the biggest spot on my nose!!
He'll be here about 4.30, so should just about time to make myself look normal!
Good for you getting your hair cut gert, hope it makes you feel good;)

I hope he lets me know tonight, well I do if he says what I want him to say!
I'm going to give him time though & if he is still unsure, I can only wait until the end of the month as will have to put in my claim for income support etc.
SWo that's the cut off point & knowing me I won't wait until then anyway.

kpwll

hi Kizzy,
Keeping fingers, eyes n legs crossed for you. xx

greeniegirl

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I have been in counselling for 2 years now and started when I was at a very low part in my life, and although I think I will always have certain issues, I feel much more positive now and look at things so differenly.
I think its all about getting a totally unbiased opinion and being able to say things you never ever thought you would.
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good for you..

my only concern for kizzy is that you can look for advice and support. Everyone has their own opinion, based on their own experiences, heartaches and triumphs and everyone is at a different stage. So you could take up some (very well intentioned) advice that is not right for your particular situation. We're talking emotions here, not money which unfortunately if tis not there, tis not just there!

that's why i think talking to Relate or someone similar could be worthwhile.
that's just my opinion,well intentioned and I'm no expert either..

just read that back kizzy, i'm not for a second trying to suggest you're not capable of thinking for yourself!

louise2181

Hi Kizzy

Havent posted on here before but been reading your story and just wanted to wish you all the luck in the world for later on.

As the others have said, as frustrating as it is not knowing what to do, you cant really push him too much. He sounds like the type of guy who will run further away the more you try to find answers.

Will be keeping everything crossed for you x

purplepatch

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Thanks Guys
I haven't heard from him today, but have given the house a real good spruce up & cleaned the hamsters out, so kept myself occupied.
need to sort me out now, hair looks terrible & I've got the biggest spot on my nose!!
He'll be here about 4.30, so should just about time to make myself look normal!
Good for you getting your hair cut gert, hope it makes you feel good;)

I hope he lets me know tonight, well I do if he says what I want him to say!
I'm going to give him time though & if he is still unsure, I can only wait until the end of the month as will have to put in my claim for income support etc.
SWo that's the cut off point & knowing me I won't wait until then anyway.

Keeping everything crossed for you kizzy, I go on holiday tomorrow, early, so I'm not going to know what's happened for a whole week although I think there's internet access where I'm going - I'll have to sneak off without my DH knowing - he will think I'm very sad being so interested in your lovelife. But been reading all your posts and feel like I know you now! You really do sound such a lovely person and if he doesn't want to try again, then he's a darned fool.

scottishfreebiehunter

all crossed for you kizzyxx

and well done gertixx

mine coming today and my face as as white as can be and today do not care as i am knackered

xxlaurissaxx

Hi you 3. Haven't posted on this post yet but have sat and read your thread and i want to say good luck and stay strong. I dont know what your going through as im only 20 and not married but just wanted to wish you's luck and I hope everything works out for the better:) xx

kizzykizzywizzy

purplepatch wrote: »

Keeping everything crossed for you kizzy, I go on holiday tomorrow, early, so I'm not going to know what's happened for a whole week although I think there's internet access where I'm going - I'll have to sneak off without my DH knowing - he will think I'm very sad being so interested in your lovelife. But been reading all your posts and feel like I know you now! You really do sound such a lovely person and if he doesn't want to try again, then he's a darned fool.

Hope you have a nice holiday

Also hope there is some news, getting really nervous AGAIN!!
Just dropped my beautiful necklace I bought in Venice, it's glass, thought I'd possibly be able to glue the chip back on & it wouldn't notice & then being that I'm a nervous wreck, promptly dropped it again, on the tiled kitchen floor, & it's completly broken, it wasn't expensive, but it was really nice:o

%$%$£££ ^%$%$^%$^%$% ^%&^%^%% "$£%&^

Sorry just swearing, I am sooooo worried he will say he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I know I would be ok after a while & possibly find someone else & maybe have a "better" life ( as in more money etc ) but I like my little life, I love my Husband & my children want thier daddy home

scottishfreebiehunter

:mad:mine has cut wedding ring of well he will have a long time before i give him a divorce