Marriage over don't know where to start

SPANIEL36

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

My DH hasn't worn a ring for a couple of years original one got too small where he put on weight, new one got caught on something at work & finger never the same after, so didn't fit & just never got around to making it bigger or getting another.
I took mine off the day I asked him to leave, felt weird not wearing a ring, so got some fantastic glass rings in Venice, not very expensive & really cool!
Well he's text me tonight, doesn't usually text in the evening, only to ask how kids are & to say he's watching football!
Then the usual one If I need anything (zzzzzzzzzzzzzz) bless him!
I might tell him to save the 3p on that one - not very MSE:p

knowing me i'd probably reply... only you!!

Mrs_Dawn

NIght night all, it's taken me 3 attempts to write(sorry type) this I've had far too much wine.

Hope you all sleep well and I'll say a prayer for us all(I'm not religious, but anything to help ok).

Take care I'll pop in tomorrow and catch up.

(((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))) to all.

Night Dawn xx:D ( this is really what I look like tonight)

gerturdeanna

Am so not feeling strong right now - will do tomorrow I'm sure - always thought it was Vodka that made me cry - must have been wrong!! Stupid bacardi!! Tell me please - why am I torturing myself listening to our wedding first dance song on replay on youtube?

gerturdeanna

Am going to bed guys. Have stopped sobbing like a demented cow now and I WILL be stronger in the morning(I hope!!)

scottishfreebiehunter

gerturdeanna wrote: »

Am so not feeling strong right now - will do tomorrow I'm sure - always thought it was Vodka that made me cry - must have been wrong!! Stupid bacardi!! Tell me please - why am I torturing myself listening to our wedding first dance song on replay on youtube?

(()()()()()(xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx have done same other day:o
why should we be like this as they aintxxxxx
you take care loads of love

gerturdeanna

Its no good- I can't sleep!! Everytime I close my eyes, I see images of him with someone else, anyone else - why i am I doing this to myself!!

gerturdeanna

OMG!!! How drunk was I last night?!! Well, I've had my good cry now - time to be strong again. And does anyone have any ideas of keeping a 4yr old and a 3 yrold in bed in the morning?!! GRR

scottishfreebiehunter

gerturdeanna wrote: »

Its no good- I can't sleep!! Everytime I close my eyes, I see images of him with someone else, anyone else - why i am I doing this to myself!!

me to it is going to be hard gerti though keep strong,mine never did answer phone to ds ,wonder what his excuse will be today :rolleyes:well last warning for him I am afraid this happens again and he will not be seeing son whenever he feels like it etc.

Fidget21

Didn't catch up with this thread til this morning....

Gert, sorry you were feeling so awful last night ((((hugs)))) to help get you through today. ((Kizzy, SFH, make it a group hug!!!))

Kizzy, is today the day he is supposed to tell you what he's doing, or is he taking more time???

Will keep things crossed still for you. Have to go now...late for work!

kizzykizzywizzy

Well originally he said we'll talk about it when I see you Thursday, but yesterday, whaen I said have you had chance to thing about things, he said can I have a bit more time please?
So who knows