Marriage over don't know where to start

gerturdeanna

He's never took it off before so its quite a shock to see him without it although he is still branded as there is still a mark!!

SPANIEL36

Rikki wrote: »

:shocked: I'm shocked. :rotfl:

There are things you certainly can do when your single. Wearing your scruffy clothes all day, just doing what you want to do. Pure bliss. :cool:

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yesterday while other half at work, i stayed in me jam jams till half 4!!! only when he text me saying he'd got in from work, had a shower and was waiting in bed for me;) that i decided to get dressed myself!!!

Mrs_Dawn

Spaniel36 :eek: . Jim jams all day, wow is it Boxing Day already?

Well done on the weight loss by the way.

I hail from Stoke originally. Moved to Somerset in 1995. That makes me an official resident and not a grockle(tourist). So most of the nieghbours actually speak now instead of just frowning at my townie ways:p .

gerturdeanna

HAAH- 13 years to be ' one of them!! hhe

kizzykizzywizzy

My DH hasn't worn a ring for a couple of years original one got too small where he put on weight, new one got caught on something at work & finger never the same after, so didn't fit & just never got around to making it bigger or getting another.
I took mine off the day I asked him to leave, felt weird not wearing a ring, so got some fantastic glass rings in Venice, not very expensive & really cool!
Well he's text me tonight, doesn't usually text in the evening, only to ask how kids are & to say he's watching football!
Then the usual one If I need anything (zzzzzzzzzzzzzz) bless him!
I might tell him to save the 3p on that one - not very MSE:p

Keeping_Motivated

Kizzy I thought he was going to his friends tonight.

Its nice he is keeping in touch but I am getting so impatient with him for not mentioning anything just small talk :mad: Can you tell I'm impatient

I hope he doesn't accuse you of being the one who doesn't talk?! Coz thats definately his forte at the moment :rolleyes:

Have you suggested going out for a drink somewhere tomorrow night so that you can really talk? Explain no pressure just talking away from the kids and house if you do ask.

KM x

scottishfreebiehunter

Kizzy i hope and pray it works out the way you want it to tomorrowxxxxxxx



Thanks for everyones words and I know there is life after this.
What is hurting me tonight is that I am one putting ds to bed etc etc and he wants his dad,I cannot understand how he has walked away from this aboslute s h i t

on a better note my ds enjoying school and we are looking forward to holiday soon

hard hard time and he is getting away scot free ,that is what makes me rage

gerturdeanna

I thought my other SIL was online before so I said hello - turns out it was my 16 year old neice who he looked after when she was a baby -
Gert says:
Hey xxx, or is it xxx?
xxx says:
Its xxx
Gert says:
hey xxx!!
Gert says:
You coming to xxx wedding?
xxx says:
yees
xxx says:
aree youu?
Gert says:
OH is
XXX says:
I heard you've been having problems
XXX says:
im sorry
gert says:
Who have you heard from xxx?
xxx says:
in read it in your facebook
gert says:
oh!!
gert says:
I'm fine and I'll always be your Auntie gert!!
xxx says:
i know you will
xxx says:
no one is going to take your place
gert says:
bless - you're a good girl xxx - oh don't you;ll make me cry!! Tell Mummy I said Hi!
xxx says:
mummy says Hi back
gert says:
Cheers!!
xxx says:
if you need her call her
xxx says:
she said
gert says:
Tell her thanks and I love you all
xxx says:
we love you too
xxx says:
she said you've always been there when she needed you, so you if you need anything just call her
gert says:
thank you - tell her she doesn't know how much that means to me!!
xxx says:
auntie gert im going to miss you
xxx says:
a lot
xxx says:
and im going to miss (ds) and (dd)
gert says:
I'm still here xxx - just might be a while before you see us again - thats all!! But I'll send you pictures etc all the time!!
gert says:
Its time I went to bed now - kisses to you all!
xxx says:
but will I ever see you again?
gert says:
of course!!
xxx says:
ok, have a nice sleep
xxx says:
take care
xxx says:
and I love you
Gert says:
and u xxx!!! LOADS!!


How sweet is that!!! I am crying buckets here now - started the day so strong - where did it go wrong!!!:(

scottishfreebiehunter

Gert me to crying here also xxxxxxx


We will get our lifes back or different life and be happy soonxx

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks MM for such a lovely pm , can't reply as you are barred from receiving PM's

KM - He is around his friends, watching the football there, so doesn't look like much talking going on there either:o
You're impatient!!, think how impatient I feel!!! driving me crazy.
You're right about him being the one who doesn't talk!! But I don't want to push at the moment, just giving him space....................:rolleyes: