Marriage over don't know where to start

elona

Kizzy

I am really worried that everythng seems to be his decision.

He has you on a string and it is not good for either of you.

I hate to be cynical but are you quite sure he was not crying because he has been found out and everyone knows what he has done rather than really regretting his betrayal of your family?

As the "moose" is married maybe she finished with him before her husband found out.

I really hope things turn out well for you.

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

No text yet - starting to panic

keep calm he could still be asleep etcxx

kizzykizzywizzy

No he's at work

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

No he's at work

He could be busyxxxx


I just want to run away today as daft as it may sound

poppyg_2

Kizzy, he could maybe be in a meeting or maybe he wants to have a few hours where he tries to get his head together before seeing you tomorrow, bit of thinking time

I do think the signs are positive and I agree with what someone else said about making an extra special effort tomorrow night when you see him (but without him realising you're making a big effort for him of course!)

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks just rang SIL, she said don't text him, just wait, she agrees sounds positive.
SFH - you are going through the same things I have, big hugs
He won't be in a meeting, probably just having a bit of thinking time, or can't think what to say to me.
Going out soon, at least that will take my mind off things. I feel so annoyed that most of the summer holidays have been wasted with all of this & soon kids will be back at school & I haven't got a job now!
I wish I hadn't been so hasty giving it up, because if we do get back together, I would still have liked to have done it.
I think though, I need to do something that is a bit better for my self esteem iyswim, mopping floors & washing up etc don't make you feel like a very valued member of society, don't get me wrong, I don't think I'm above it, just I think I need something where I dress up & interact more with people

louiser123

SIL is right DONT text him, hard i know but be strong,

i wouldnt worry about the job another will be along soon and as you say that could be a blessing in disguise if you didnt like it anyway.

keep your chin up, x

SPANIEL36

didnt your old boss say to get intouch if you changed your mind and he'd find you something?

scottishfreebiehunter

right I got a little spurt of energy and dusted living room ,cleaned bird cage etc ,house needing a lot of repairs done that he has just left but managed to shift myself for a little
So at least I can be positive about that
Hardest time for me is at night and makes me sad

gerturdeanna

Don't wory about the night times SFH - It'll get better- great that you are p and about doing stuff during the day!!
I called my SIL today whose getting married at end of august to his brother. He is going but I'm not. Just felt like I needed to get my side of the story accross before he goes and tells a pack of lies!! She had a small idea of what was going on but not all, so I told her!! That'll get round the family quicker than flies on poo!! hehe. But his mum phones him soon to see what he's playing at!!
Been at my mums all morning - they have just got back from France - I got a huge bottle of Bacardi and he did have a bottle of JD but they aren't giving it to him now!! hehe