Single and in debt.

SuSu1871

I know, I am really lucky really. I work with some people who've been with the company for years and they b!tch and moan about having to travel and I vowed that I'd never get like that. I am so so lucky with this job (and with my previous job at the same company - got to go to opening nights at museums, art galleries and theatres). I never take it for granted and always always thank my boss for giving me the opportunity to travel when I do. I only plan on being at this company for another 3-4 years while I save up to buy a house and move back up north, so I want to take advantage of every opportunity that comes my way.

Where did you go in America? Prior to this job, I'd only been to New Jersey (stayed with a friend and we visited New York twice - I went to the top of the Twin Towers :eek: ) I'd love to go to New York again...

eco

i went to florida so we could do the theme parks, loved disney and universal, the rides are way better than alton towers and the fireworks at disney are fabulous, oh to go again

SuSu1871

Cool! Which ones? Ooh, you've reminded me that I want to go to Florida too!!

Dammit - need to stop thinking about holidays as have no money :rotfl:

eco

I just loved how disney had the different themes, duelling dragons was my fav thats at universal, one dragons fire and ones ice and they loop and nearly touch, got to go to bed now i'll be back tomorrow night.

SuSu1871

Sounds cool!

Looks like everyone else has gone to bed too! I should go now as well. Early start then off out straight from work, so I'll catch up with y'all tomorrow with tales of romantical liaisons from London town

Sweet dreams everyone!

makeup

I'm either a rabbit or a cat depending on which one you read up one.....

I love SATC too, after watching the film I became obsessed with idea that my ex was my Mr Big!!!! Aaargh, just wish I could dress like Carrie.....and run around town in heels all day without being crippled in pain.

Good luck tomorrow Susu, looking forward to hearing news.

I'm on a course about fire risks....and I've heard it's dull!! At least there is a free lunch which is very MSE - hurrah!

OOh, Michelle, with three different possibilities surely something must come of one of them??!

Paulgonnabedebtfree

TDQO wrote: »

Sorry I was busy getting rid of the crazy stalker girl I slept with on NYE... naturally I only found out about the crazy stalker thing 24hrs after we did the dirty lol.

I'm officially available for male perspective etc from now on...

Yeah, I had one of those too a good few years back. The only way I could stop her stalking me in the end was to go live with her. Many thousands of pounds of debt later and with a head that felt on the brink of going nuts, I walked. I walked. She stalked. Had to get the police involved because she was a headcase. Eventually stopped stalking me and not heard a peep in nearly five years.
I have some great friends of both genders and just friendship it is. Sometimes I wish I didn't have sexual or emotional needs as it would make life a lot simpler.
I'm reasonably happy on my own but sometimes feel that I could be happier with someone. However, I'm not convinced. Also, there's no way I would carry a heavy debt level into a relationship of meaning as that would be unfair on the other person and would probably be a stress factor.

From this male's perspectve (bear in mind I may be biased ) I would say NEVER chase any man. Some of us may be a little introverted though so there's no harm in making a first move.
I used to think that middle-aged spread was something they put on sandwiches.

Damzel_In_Distress

Witsend wrote: »

:grouphug: Hi sarahb123 don't worry I know the pic seems scary it's just a group hug to welcome you. I can't really offer any advice I just wanted to say welcome and don't worry you have joined the right site it is full of really useful advice

LOL i no this is an old post but that pic is seriously freaky-im not even going to say what it looks like their doing!! did give me a chuckle though! lol

Lula-Hula

morning all,

SuSu & TDQ - tokers anon eh .

Lucky you with all the travelling SuSu, I'd love to visit Oz but have decided that I'd need at least 6 months & a camper... so need to do some serious saving first / meet friendly oz blokie.

To be honest all I've ever wanted to do was travel; never been ambitious career wise & never been desperate to own a house, I'd rather have a camper & a houseboat . That's probably why I dont go for suited men with sensible jobs & houses & more to the point why they dont go for me :rolleyes: .

Oh, I feel all yearny for freedom again now so going to check out some boats & campers on ebay - no harm in looking I'm quite happy to cook outside over an open fire if necessary but I do need to have modern conveniences like loos & showers & that does bump the price up a bit :rolleyes:

TDQO

Paul: crikey I thought my stalkers were bad! I've had two so far and they bug the hell outta me but I got off lightly compared to you!