Single and in debt.

eco

Ooh, by the way, is anyone 36 between Feb 2009 and 2010? If so, it's your Chinese year of the Ox!!

My birthdays in Feb, whats supposed to happen in the year of the Ox?

SuSu1871

eco wrote: »

Ooh, by the way, is anyone 36 between Feb 2009 and 2010? If so, it's your Chinese year of the Ox!!

My birthdays in Feb, whats supposed to happen in the year of the Ox?

Crikey! I'm not Chinese so I don't know all the details , but what I do understand is that there are 12 animals in the Chinese calendar, so every 12 years is "your" year. (When I think back to being 12, 24 and 36, something important and life-defining happened in each year).

Just had a look on tinternet to see what's in store for the ox this year, and well, it seems you're going to be v sociable and at ease and the one to cheer up a dull evening. However, there's a chance you'll not finish projects if you can't finish them as quickly as you'd like (debt perhaps?). Here's a Chinese proverb for you: "he who moved the mountain is he who had begun with taking away small stones"

Oh, I dunno if you buy into it or not, but when I read about the characteristics of the Chinese pig, it's so much more me than the western lion

runmichellerun

SuSu1871 wrote: »

Ooh, who's your date with? What's he like? Who asked who? Where are you going?

(I'm living vacariously through you, so make it good!!)

Oh God, the pressure!!!

Ummm, well I'm going out with a guy I met on plenty of fish. We've chatted a bit online and seem to have a similar sense of humour. Must say I'm nervous though, not been on a date in a few months. The 'set up' guy has text me today and added me on facebook. He seems nice but I'll see how Friday goes.

But, as is always the way with my life, something more complicated is happening. There's someone I like. I'm almost definitely sure he likes me too. But we met through a mutual friend who denies she likes him but talks about him ALL the time. I don't want to hurt her or risk losing my friendship with her, but I like the guy even more because I know nothing should really happen. ARGHHHH!!!! :mad: :mad: Why am I like this? Why can't I just like someone who likes me back and where there's no complications at all?

I'm hoping that the date on Friday goes so well that I forget all about 'forbidden man' as he shall now be known.

SuSu1871

Slightly off topic, but I'm watching Sex and the City on telly - it's the one where all the girls are having fabulous orgasmic sex... apart from Miranda who's pottering about in her apartment in her jarmies eating chocolate cake from the bin! Go Miranda! :rotfl:

(it's also the one where Samantha goes lesbian - hee-larious!)

eco

SuSu1871 wrote: »

Crikey! I'm not Chinese so I don't know all the details , but what I do understand is that there are 12 animals in the Chinese calendar, so every 12 years is "your" year. (When I think back to being 12, 24 and 36, something important and life-defining happened in each year).

Just had a look on tinternet to see what's in store for the ox this year, and well, it seems you're going to be v sociable and at ease and the one to cheer up a dull evening. However, there's a chance you'll not finish projects if you can't finish them as quickly as you'd like (debt perhaps?). Here's a Chinese proverb for you: "he who moved the mountain is he who had begun with taking away small stones"

Oh, I dunno if you buy into it or not, but when I read about the characteristics of the Chinese pig, it's so much more me than the western lion

well i've nearly finished the painting and i've no debts except the mortgage, i am very sociable, i do feel more relaxed i was putting that down to the fact i couldn't care less what anyone thought, normally i do so not bad really

mags33_2

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Hey everyone & welcome to jazzyjeff & lxpeanut ,

thanks for the ever sensible advice :A & bluddy well said eco although I hasten to add that I'm not on some weird feminist revenge on men style trip :rotfl: . I'm not a 'user' of people but I was beginning to feel a bit uncomfortable so will now go forth (without multiplying) shame & guilt free :j .
Great news on the bank account mags - bet you feel so relieved now

Hope you social people have a good time on your night's out & just remember how dam fabulous you are please :cool:

lula

yip i am

had a bad night last night just purely worrying over nothing thought they would refuse me i went in with a positive honest attitude and when it came to the credit check i wanted to go under the table but it wasnt bad she said and i believe her. phew im gonna head to bed as back to work tomorrow and i so need to sleep.

worry i keep saying it does you no good but why cant you help but worry

tomorrow is another day and nother day closer to being debt free :T

thanks again to everyone who has helped or thanked me for the posts you do really help.

Mags x

TDQO

SuSu1871 wrote: »

Yep, she's a stalker!! :rotfl:

You're well rid, TDQO. Hope she doesn't know where you live!

luckily i don't have a place in england atm! She does know where I'm crashing atm though :eek: She started asking about when i was coming back for good from Oz and I was like "ummmm not sure..." even though I know.

SuSu1871

runmichellerun wrote: »

There's someone I like. I'm almost definitely sure he likes me too. But we met through a mutual friend who denies she likes him but talks about him ALL the time.

Do you know for sure your friend likes him in a sexy way? She might just like him as a friend. Why don't you just tell your friend how you feel about the forbidden man and see what she says, or more importantly how she reacts. If you don't ask you don't get...

In the meantime, busy yourself with your Friday date you lucky gal!!

mags33_2

SuSu1871 wrote: »

Welcome Paperwhite!

Great idea to make 2009 the year of ME (or you, obviously)!!

Ooh, by the way, is anyone 36 between Feb 2009 and 2010? If so, it's your Chinese year of the Ox!!

(I'm a pig :rotfl: - I had my time 2 years ago, which was when I started tackling my debts, so I'm looking forward to my next Chinese year...when I'm 48!!)

im 36 in 2010 feb 28th to be precise

mags33_2

SuSu1871 wrote: »

Slightly off topic, but I'm watching Sex and the City on telly - it's the one where all the girls are having fabulous orgasmic sex... apart from Miranda who's pottering about in her apartment in her jarmies eating chocolate cake from the bin! Go Miranda! :rotfl:

(it's also the one where Samantha goes lesbian - hee-larious!)

i love sex and the city absolutely love it i literally sit there and just laugh at their antics