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  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Go for 4 but use your feminine wiles to 'distract' him from the film....
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    Thank you lovely people & yes o/f is the old flame of previous week end fame ;) .

    Got to be honest, the allotment & family option I just put in the list to make myself sound like a nice person, it wasnt ever going to happen :o .

    I would definitely prefer not to spend an evening at the cinema (particularly as it's a mere few days since I declared that i would never have to watch any film of that ilk again :rolleyes: )however, i shall keep Ossireos wise words in my mind as my ear drums split due to the volume of the gunfire ... yawn.

    I do need to be very cautious about this though as I really dont want to get too involved; I know this o/f is not 'the one' for me. We had a casual thing going on before i met xbf - who seems to have finally taken on board that he is now surplus to requirements :j - & I really am not interested in anything more than that; friendship with a bit of extras on the quiet ;) .

    Thanks for all your thoughts :A
  • Ahhhhh David tenant "drool"

    Evening all

    Just popping in to say hi....;)

    Buffy, what have you been doing to David Tennant?

    A bit quick off the mark me thinks!

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/entertainment/7772880.stm

    SmileyG
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  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Just to clarify... what does o/f mean? Old friend?
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • SuSu1871
    SuSu1871 Posts: 535 Forumite
    TDQO wrote: »
    Just to clarify... what does o/f mean? Old friend?

    'tis Old Flame methinks, and who hasn't got one of those, eh?! ;)
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  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Yeh there's a few of them hanging around. How come it's so quiet in here?

    The girl-on-the-bus wasn't on the bus today which shredded my theory and left me listening to two 15yr old girls behind me talk about how many fights they started last week and how they got people suspended... not the most fun journey ever!

    Only 7 days til I fly home though :D:D:D
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • hmmm... Maybe the girl on the bus is on holiday this week?? Hopefully she'll be back next week so you can have a chat with her before you go. Great time to give her your facebook details so you can keep in touch over Christmas/New Year. And... if you get to know each other online first, you'll know if you have enough in common with her to pursue asking her for a date when you get back. If you don't have enough in common to ask her out on a date, keep in touch anyway - she's bound to have some single gal pals!!
    £27k (excluding interest) paid off in 29 months
    Finally debt free!
  • btw, would it be impertinent of me to ask what TDQO stands for?? I'm building up several theories of my own:

    Trendy Dancing Queen, Okay
    Tall Dark Quiet Omigodhesgorgeous
    'Tash Does Quiver Occasionally
    Tanning Disaster, Quite Orange
    Tickle Ducks Quickly, Ooh!

    :confused:
    £27k (excluding interest) paid off in 29 months
    Finally debt free!
  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    I like the way you're being so positive about it, personally I'm resigned to it being another "if-only" scenario!

    TDQO stands for:

    The Dangerous Quiet One

    I could even tell you how it came about if you'd like? lol.
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • Bowski_1011
    Bowski_1011 Posts: 1,041 Forumite
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    Hello everyone... hope you're all ok !!!

    Lula, I know just how you feel, I love it when I know DD is sleeping out. I phone my friends up saying 'I'm not a mother tonite, what shall we do?' It usually ends up me and my friend driving round stalking guys we fancy lol Totally showing my childish side I know, but we always have fun! I think o/f is a good option and I know you want to keep it very casual but if you agree he only stays when DD sleeps out and I gather it's not too often then you won't have to see him often :) I hope you enjoy your time off whatever you decide to do anyways.

    Susu.. that cracked me up! Tanning Disaster, Quite Orange was my favourite lol

    TDQO.... yes I think you should let us know how it came about!! That's pants about girly being on the bus today. Did you have the bit of paper with ya name on ready too??

    I've had a bit of male company tonite :) Just a friend fixing my washing machine, but he came about 5ish and has only just gone. I must admit I do like a bit of male company from time to time!

    Oh I've only got 4 days left at work now and then I'm off till 5th Jan:snow_laug
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