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Bleeding in pregnancy

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  • My_Fathers_Daughter
    My_Fathers_Daughter Posts: 8,691 Forumite
    I haven't got a clue what to say dippychick but sending you (((((HUGS)))))
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
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  • olliesmummy06
    olliesmummy06 Posts: 406 Forumite
    Oh dippychick. I am so, so sorry if this is the end. My heart goes out to you ((((((((((huge hugs))))))))))). PM me if you want to chat.xxxx
  • Poppy9
    Poppy9 Posts: 18,833 Forumite
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    Nothing I can say but :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:
    :) ~Laugh and the world laughs with you, weep and you weep alone.~:)
  • mrcow
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    Hi DC - just checking that your husband is now back? Are you going to go into hospital - it sounds heavier than a period?

    Not trying to sound negative here, but you probably need it to be checked what is happening as you can't just leave it passing blood like this. It can be dangerous. I know it's horrible and a pain and probably the last place that you feel like being right now, but at least call them for some advice if you're not actually going in.
    "One day I realised that when you are lying in your grave, it's no good saying, "I was too shy, too frightened."
    Because by then you've blown your chances. That's it."
  • angelfairy
    angelfairy Posts: 3,594 Forumite
    i don't know what else to say other than i am thinking of you and your husband.

    i hope he is home with you now.
  • Mips
    Mips Posts: 19,796 Forumite
    mrcow wrote: »
    Hi DC - just checking that your husband is now back? Are you going to go into hospital - it sounds heavier than a period?

    Not trying to sound negative here, but you probably need it to be checked what is happening as you can't just leave it passing blood like this. It can be dangerous. I know it's horrible and a pain and probably the last place that you feel like being right now, but at least call them for some advice if you're not actually going in.


    Yes I did ring up. She told me that unless I am literally flooding the place, there is no need. Or if I can't handle the blood. Not sure whether she mean physically or emotionally though.

    She asked me what painkillers I have in - I said Ibuprofen - she said normally they would tell me not to take them in early pregnancy but seeing as it looks like I am miscarrying it is fine.

    I haven't wanted to do much today but I feel like I know now and at least I can move on instead of not knowing. I hate the bleeding and don't like seeing what I am passing but I have passed worse after giving birth.

    It just wasn't meant to be and am only glad it happened sooner rather than later.

    Glass of Wine tonight and a cuddle I think, after we've made Rhubarb crumble :)


    My husbands home, been lovely and has just had to take a call but he is supportive and knows that i like to be distracted when upset.
    :cool:
  • mrcow
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    I'm so upset for you I dont know what to say. I lost a baby at 12 weeks a few years ago and I had to go in and have things sorted as I was losing so much blood (it was even in my shoes - so maybe that's what they mean by too much :confused:?) I just don't get how they can leave you like this, but I suppose there is nothing they can really do either way.

    If you do have a glass of wine tonight - then I'll be joining you if it's any comfort.
    "One day I realised that when you are lying in your grave, it's no good saying, "I was too shy, too frightened."
    Because by then you've blown your chances. That's it."
  • Poppy9
    Poppy9 Posts: 18,833 Forumite
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    mrcow wrote: »
    If you do have a glass of wine tonight - then I'll be joining you if it's any comfort.

    I will join you in a glass of wine too.
    :) ~Laugh and the world laughs with you, weep and you weep alone.~:)
  • samarnesen
    samarnesen Posts: 416 Forumite
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    i hope your ok dippychick
    thinking of you
    take care of yourself
    xxx
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  • nicci1807
    nicci1807 Posts: 30 Forumite
    Dippychick,

    I'm a midwife and mum of 4 (sadly lost 3 -early miscarriages and 1 baby died after 3 days from being born @ 25 weeks) if you'd like a chat.

    Sadly pregnancy isn't an exact science as has probably been proven by the comments on this thread, but I'd like to think I have a friendly ear in a time of need.

    Anyone else who needs a chat most welcome.....either by msg or on forum.

    Hope you're feeling well Dippy, you'll be in my thoughts.

    Nicci
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