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Friday 18th July *Daily Chat*
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Have you been feeling like this for a while? Or has it been a recent thing? Why do you feel let down by nearest and dearest? Is there something you could start doing just for your own enjoyment to pull you out of the cycle you're in.
Big hugs.26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%SPC 2019 #073
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Herewegoagain wrote: »There's no fun i my life just work, paying bills, being let down by nearest and dearest no me time,just about everything and then guilt cos loads of peeps on here have mega probs:mad:
But its all relative hun.
That is the reality of your life & you are finding it hard.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
Agree with lucifa that you need to do something just for you.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
Herewegoagain wrote: »There's no fun i my life just work, paying bills, being let down by nearest and dearest no me time,just about everything and then guilt cos loads of peeps on here have mega probs:mad:Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
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Chrismoney, sorry about the cheque - what a nightmare. Any chance of doing a car boot sale over the weekend or something, to bring a bit of cash in?
Just everything is getting on top of me! Have debt to pay off offered a sum to creditors as I cannot afford to pay it. One of them took the cheque and the normal payment this month so that is leaving me broke. Some have asked me to call them, but cannot face it. I will tomorrow.
I cannot do a car boot, don't have anything to sell. Or a car.
Everything is going wrong. I'm trying to sell my house but that is impossible in the current state of market. The tennants that are living there are being pains.
Nothing wants to go right! I'm betting life will get worse before the end of July! And having £20 to live on dose'nt make it any better.
Thanks for your help and support snaggles. :A0 -
Is there someone you can really talk to? I know you're feeling let down by those around you, but if there is someone please take that step. I've been in a similar place and found that once I'd had the courage to talk about it that what I thought was wrong was just symptoms of something else. I don't mean medical, just one thing I needed to change in my life (now referred to as the ex!) to be able to move on and feel like I was living rather than existing...
If you want to PM me about this I'm happy to help. Sometimes a stranger is the best frined you can have at times like this as they aren't into the detail of your life.26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%SPC 2019 #073
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A little magic trick for those who need a chuckle....
Warning.. not for the faint hearted!!!
http://www.videosift.com/video/A-Most-Wonderful-Magic-Trick-the-Hanky-PankyTotal 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
Que sera, sera.0 -
is it safe to view in an open plan office?26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%SPC 2019 #073
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Have you been feeling like this for a while? Or has it been a recent thing? Why do you feel let down by nearest and dearest? Is there something you could start doing just for your own enjoyment to pull you out of the cycle you're in.
Big hugs.
It's been like this what seems like forever, oh owes me thousands but never helps me out when I'm broke, just say's I'm after his money whenever HE gets any.
I work 24/7 7-10wks at a time, any time I get off, peeps are lined up for me to do things so there IS no time for me to have fun, you guys are the only peeps that I get to talk to that don't want anything at all sad eh
My son has probs wont work and wont help himself!!!!!!!!!!!!don't get it
Life sucks, and I know I make the choices but Have to sort things out as there is onone else who will:mad::mad:
lost 3stin 4mnths GC nov£90/£51.65 July£100/£97.67 Aug£90/£18.59LBM Nov05 Loan £4910.65 Paid April07 sealed pot challenge#256Nov06 CC £2,590.56 Paid aug07 + Savings07/08 Night Owl 22#Mortgage £87,000/£84,000/ £82,261.00/£81,785.30 £80,268/£75402.00/£71229.15 DFW NERD 987 Long Haul member 125 debt free 24th aug 070 -
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