Friday 18th July *Daily Chat*

Lucifa73

Herewegoagain wrote: »

any time I get off, peeps are lined up for me to do things so there IS no time for me to have fun

You need to learn to say 'No'. It'll feel selfish to start with but YOUR health and happiness are the most precious things you have and you need to stand up for your right to have both.

How old is your son? Maybe another tough decision but you may have to cut him loose so he feels the pain of his life choices, not you.

Hope that's not coming across too bossy.

Lucifa73

chrismoney1800 wrote: »

No! :rotfl:

I'll wait 'til I get home then:p Is it worth it?

beanielou

Lucifa73 wrote: »

I've just had a business idea - how about a formal wear hire service especially catering to pregnant women?

Party dresses, wedding outfits, work suits, all the expensive 'investment' items that it costs a lot to buy, especially just for a few days/weeks/months of wear?

Great idea BTW.
Sorry, missed it as was at bottom of a page.

chrismoney1800

Lucifa73 wrote: »

I'll wait 'til I get home then:p Is it worth it?

Its rather amusing. :j Made my day a little better.

beanielou

Cant believe its so cold here Im off to put a fleece on in July

Lucifa73

beanielou wrote: »

Great idea BTW.
Sorry, missed it as was at bottom of a page.

Thanks. I was just thinking about Toto yesterday and my work situation. What I've seen so far (to buy) seems very pricey for the sake of a few wears, not great quality or just plain not available.

Snaggles

Aww Chrismoney, that sounds like a right mess, poor you - you know that the £1k cheque is definitely on it's way, so is there anyone who could help you out just very short term, just so you can afford to eat? Then maybe post your SOA to see if we can give you any longer term help to get back on your feet a bit?

Lucifa73

beanielou wrote: »

Cant believe its so cold here Im off to put a fleece on in July

I hade great hopes when it was so nice earlier in the year...
Next the 'experts' will start waffling on about an Indian Summer just to keep our hopes up and the next thing you know it'll be Xmas!:rotfl:

Herewegoagain

Lucifa73 wrote: »

You need to learn to say 'No'. It'll feel selfish to start with but YOUR health and happiness are the most precious things you have and you need to stand up for your right to have both.

How old is your son? Maybe another tough decision but you may have to cut him loose so he feels the pain of his life choices, not you.

Hope that's not coming across too bossy.

My son is 32 and I did cut him loose yrs ago but when OH came along he told me I was a bad mother if I didn't help and invited him back, now OH is regreting it but still insists that someone has to help my son, OH is just as bad and I'm getting tooooooo old for all this:mad:

no ur not too bossy

I try to say no but yes comes out begrugingly so peeps must know :mad:

Snaggles

Gahhhhhh......5 minutes till school run and Natasha has fallen asleep on my knee! I LOVE cuddling her, so why does she only ever snuggle up to me when I am just about to put her in her pram to go out? Little monkey! :rotfl: