can someone please help-i am desperately worried

mumjules

Sounds good (even the dodgy ones)......!!! My New Fella just text me "goodnight sweetheart"...he must like the tears...either that or he was just too drunk to notice :beer: .

Will check in tomorrow xxxx

Keeping_Motivated

I think alot of us prefer people who are 'real' so maybe that is what your fella is seeing, someone who is real.

KM x

mumjules

Thanks KM, Mrs Tine and everyone else for just being there xxx :A

mumjules

Hi Guys

Just popped in to say Hi. Another not bad day. Popped to the shop for milk...and guess what...only bought milk...thats a first for me!! New Fella called in for a cuppa so that was nice, seeing him tomorrow night when the kids go to their dads...he'll bring the wine hopefully, if not decaff coffee all round. Had a bit of a dodgy tum first thing, prob due to the fact i ate a decent meal yesterday for the 1st time in ages, oh and buy the way...slept like a log...Bonus!! Been having a good old mooch around here...yes it is addictive isn't it?? Oh yes...hung out the washing as opposed to tumble dryer - i must be the quickest DFW convert in here...;)

Spk later

Jules xxxx

MrsTinks

LOL great that you're feeling much better I'm not going to lie and say there won't be tough times ahead but at least now you know where to come and get support and virtual hugs to make it feel better
Why not check your local library for Martins OS book and whilst you're there his other 2 books?
Why not set yourself a challenge and list an item a day on Ebay?

Keeping_Motivated

Hi

I'm glad you feel calmer. Tine is right I'm sure you'll have bad days but I doubt you will ever feel as bad as you did in terms of feeling everything is out of control and no idea where to turn. You now have a wealth of help and information and like minded people at your hands.

Enjoy the new man, we all know how exciting the first part of a relationship is, nothing can beat it, I think I can remember it.... just

KM x

warwickroadroad23

mumjules wrote: »

Its amazing...in less than 24 hours i not only feel better i no longer feel alone - and its free!!! I know i am not out of the woods by a mile, but i do feel as tho a huge weight has been lifted. It will be the only good obsession i had in my life.....!!

Congratulations, this site really works wonders and gives you hope. I am not majorly in debt mysef (not being a home myself) but using the hints and tips and by just not spending on STUFF this month I am expecting to save myself £300. The site just gets in your brain

MrsTine wrote: »

Told you You'll be cackling over £2 coins, getting paranoid over 2p discrepancies in your budget and telling anyone not fast enough to run away about the joys of spreadsheets. Ach lassie there is no hope for you now... you've become... A DFW!!!!

Ha ha this really made me chuckle :rotfl:

mumjules

Hi All

Just wanted to let you know what has happened. I have been to court today, and the judge ruled a suspended order. He ordered that i pay my monthly payment and more than halved the amount i have to pay towards my arrears. So, not a bad outcome really. I have really pulled my socks up this last week and am doing as much as i can to get sorted out, i don't think i could have done that without all your help. I also told New Fella about my situation and guess what....??? He didn't run a mile...things are most definately heading in the right direction...it will be a struggle but i am feeling quite confidant that one day i'll get there.

Speak soon

Jules xx

RAS

Quite a result in the circumstances (the courts, I mean).

Have you read the up you income tab, joined quidco. learnt about clicks and survey sites etc?

All helps you get on top of things