can someone please help-i am desperately worried

Buffythedebtslayer

Hello Mumjules!

it was so good to find your thread, and find that you were doing so much better. the site is wonderful, I warn you now it becomes an obssession. which is god really cos it all helps with the debtness.

keep posting and reading!

xxxxxxxxxxxx

mumjules

You have been a star MrsTine thank you so much. Do i keep u posted on this thread ref what happens with CAB, court on Monday etc? xx

mumjules

Hi Buffy

Its amazing...in less than 24 hours i not only feel better i no longer feel alone - and its free!!! I know i am not out of the woods by a mile, but i do feel as tho a huge weight has been lifted. It will be the only good obsession i had in my life.....!!

MrsTinks

mumjules wrote: »

You have been a star MrsTine thank you so much. Do i keep u posted on this thread ref what happens with CAB, court on Monday etc? xx

Yes please Well it makes it easier for people to keep track you see In fact you can make it into a diary if you want to - for yourself and others to keep up on and be inspired by. Much like OberonSH's diary If you want to read some fantastic posts and lots of inspirational stuff then look that up it pops to the top from time to time or I'll try to dig out the link later

mumjules

And HUGE congrats on getting hitched MrsTine. I have just entered a new relationship...1st time for years :eek: , perhaps i will now begin to enjoy it a bit more?

MrsTinks

Nah men are useless and lazy and uhmmm oh whom I kidding :rotfl: They're great once you learn to live with their quirks and faults Like hogging the TV all night to play games or leaving lights on all over the house and making me walk round muttering about light polution and how much we pay per Kwh (disturbing really...)
I think I scared him the other day when I told him we should turn the hot water on only in the morning for showers to save heating oil... if we want a hot bath we can do a 30 mins boost after all!
And maybe whilst he was there he could lower the temprature by a couple degrees? Might save a wee bit? We'd never notice...

The only thing I'd say about relationships is that you need to be honest from the beginning about your finances... I knew OH was rubbish with money from fairly early on (he has a well paid job and yet was STILL skint before the end of the month...) and it didn't bother me, because I knew the extent of the problem. Infact it spurred me on to be good at it and sort mine out...

The hitching was good though thanks 3 years and a day since we first met

mumjules

LOL - i have nearly been honest - I have cried twice in...ummm 3 dates...and he is still texting, so it must be my stunning looks and witty repartie!!! I just checked out oberons diary - she sounds a scream. Not sure this DFW is such a good idea - that will now be 2 nights of Big Brother i have missed...you bad bad people . Only joking and guess what...??? I can feel a good nights sleep coming on :j .

p.s just figured out how to do the smilies

Keeping_Motivated

:hello: Just popping in to say hi. I've just read your diary and I'm glad you are now feeling more in control of things. You've already been given great advice so not much for me to add except don't go away you won't regret finding this site.

Hope to keep reading your updates.

Take care
KM x

mumjules

Hi KM

Advice isn't always what i needed...I have found support to be a great comfort...its amazing. I felt so alone this time yesterday (even tho I have great friends etc) and tonight i feel as tho i have had a HUGE hug.

You guys are turning me into a big soppy xxxxx

Keeping_Motivated

You will continue to get lots of hugs from everyone on this board including dodgy ones :grouphug: