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Fellow Dumpee's Come In Here
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Well he's been in to get his things, he only took clothes and bathroom stuff. The one thing I asked was that he left the lock up key and his keys here, he hasn't done that. He has the only key to lock up, land lady doesn't even have one, and I'm sure there's rubbish in there that's going to start to smell. I'm !!!!ed off!! And god it's horrible looking at half the bathroom being empty and empty drawers.Just because you made a mistake doesn't mean you are a mistake.0
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I haven't got my keys back yet either, even though he's taken all his belongings, it's not good. I don't like to know that my keys are somewhere out there. I guess you will have to wait until he gets the rest of his stuff before he leaves his keys.
Just move your own stuff all round the bathroom, to cover up the empty spaces.
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I don't think he'll bother with the rest, there isn't much really, but it's his expensive things, surround sound, dvd player. Only a couple things so he'd have taken them if he wanted them.
I'm feeling half upset, half angry. He cares more about the cat than he does me, gave the cat some milk in his bowl, and he can't even leave the keys for me. Ahhh, just as I was feeling better!!Just because you made a mistake doesn't mean you are a mistake.0 -
How pathetic am I, I'm jealous of the fact that the cat got milk off him!Just because you made a mistake doesn't mean you are a mistake.0
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Just phoned LL, been given my month's notice as from today... super...Just because you made a mistake doesn't mean you are a mistake.0
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Just to put in a male opinion here, and as someone who lives alone and maybe, would rather not. Don't take him back. I use to drive a cab, and picked up couples all the time where women stuck it out, because they thought they had no choice. I now do voluntary work, and again see beaten women. As much as you want to be part of a couple, no partner is better than the wrong partner. He'll do it to you over and over again, you are better without him.A good cowboy always drinks upstream from the herd.
A good cowgirl always keeps her calves together.0 -
Nothing is better than something that is better than nothing.
You will get through this and be stronger and better for it.
Good luck! It does get easier I promise!Don't lie, thieve, cheat or steal. The Government do not like the competition.
The Lord Giveth and the Government Taketh Away.
I'm sorry, I don't apologise. That's just the way I am. Homer (Simpson)0 -
aww (((hugs))) hun
Sh*tty time you've been though but what has been posted before is right.
& look at the LL giving you notice as a good thing - how long would you have wallowed about in this if he/she hadnt?
You can do this - stay strong, keep posting & remember to eat I THINK is a whole sentence, not a replacement for I KnowSupermarket Rebel No 19:T0
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