Relationship breakdown

Stephb1986_2

I would and I dont drink!

HA he has to pay the mortgage ner ner!! and he doesnt get to live there ner ner!!

serves him right the cheating !!!!!!!!

Hmmm I'd wait till the night before the wedding instead of this poor guys wedding day (you should tell him how you would want to be told) its not his fault she's a cheating b!tch too.

Seems your OH is digging a bigger hole for himself by saying that he wont stop contacting this floozy! He needs to get real as if she wants to stay with him for the rest of their sad life! WAKE UP SMELL THE COFFEE FOOL!!

I guess that if you all break up it saves the two innocent people in this the misery of having to put up with the cheating fookers any longer.

I hope your ok hun

Steph xx

gerturdeanna

RedBern wrote: »

nice one - don't lose your nerve girl! But make sure she knows of your potential intentions - that will put the wind up her......(sorry, stirring, had a couple of cans of cider... wouldn't normally suggest such a thing;))

Oh he knows!! I've told him she will get her comupance- and that I've a special wedding presrnt for her - just need to work out when and where she's getting wed?!!?!!

Pssst

gerturdeanna wrote: »

Cheers Fidget21!! I don't think he will move in with her - like you pointed out I'm absolutley sure her bloke doesn't know - yet (evil laugh!!)
I think he will probabaly get a house share or something - he can't afford anything else with having to pay the mortgage on here aswell!!
His own stupid effing fault!!

Note to GA and all the amen corner....whilst not condoning GA's partners actions,let us not forget that he too is human, has feelings,hopes dreams and is not infallible.

So the marriage is going t*ts up..so be it,but lets be business like about it and try not to be too scathing and vengefull. What do they say about a woman scorned?

I do agree though that the "tarts" husband to be should be told..gently though,its not his fault..

Some men and !!!!!!!s and some women are !!!!!!!s...otherwise who are the men cheating with?

I know a guy whos wife turned into a bunny boiler,ran off with another man and left him in mega mega debt..works both ways..

Princess_Jane

gerturdeanna wrote: »

Oh he knows!! I've told him she will get her comupance- and that I've a special wedding presrnt for her - just need to work out when and where she's getting wed?!!?!!

If it's a church then don't the bans (sp?) get displayed for so many weeks beforehand?

Failing that, there may be an announcement in the local paper.

You could always try ringing round churches/registery officers playing the long-lost relative wanting to surprise the happy couple card.

Sorry, my career involves finding out about people and who and where they are, I don't stalk weddings as a matter of course, but I can see how you would feel justified in doing so.

gerturdeanna

In a way I know it would be a bad thing to do but it would make me feel better!! And her bloke deserves to know what a b1tch he's marrying!

Butterfliesarepretty

gerturdeanna wrote: »

After looking at the Relate website, they charge £45 per session. There is no way we can afford this - are there any other companies similar?

my donation to relate seven years ago was £10 a session. Sessions are an hour usually.

bank_of_slate

Send her a Y shaped coffin!
...Linda xx

Stephb1986_2

LMAO thanks linda that made me laugh!

you should find out who he is and tell him nicely its not his fault all of this.

Steph xx

RedBern

I think that the banns have to be posted in the local registry office .and are a matter of public record...(pass me that wooden spoon........);)

gerturdeanna

My sis is doing to do some detective work for me!! Not even sure where she lives and there are plenty of registry offices aroud!!