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  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,921 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    oooops, got that wrong :(

    Its not that bad.....well I won't say that on Monday obviously!
    RosaBernicia wrote: »
    Wow and well done to job plans Buffster - you got this.



    Eeek to grim dates, surely there is a good one out there. Also, have you asked D why he is still in touch?




    Rosa xx

    I don't want to ask in case he goes away. Am an idiot. An idiot in love with an idiot. I think he will go away. You know how people do when they fade out of your life when they no longer work with you.

    I am going on another date on Wednesday. I laughed when I talk to him - probably not his intention! but hey ho.....slim pickings.

    Also I bought two pairs of sandals. the pair I bought which I have worn for about three weeks straight have fallen apart. They only cost 15 quid so am not hugely bothered.

    xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,921 Forumite
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    My tummy hurts. I may never cook salmon again.

    The relief of the weekend is enormous. Mum is in bed with a cup of tea. She is very tired. I am so worried about her.

    I have a lot to do today.

    dog walk
    pay cash into bank
    shopping/visit for sister
    return parcel at post office
    clean out animals
    vaguely need to build my chest of drawers.
    Too wet to do garden so will sort room this afternoon instead. I was reading in another diary that our surroundings reflect our mood and vice versa - I know this! but am not "doing" it for some reason I keep putting it off. I know I am depressed, I got a new laptop for my birthday (months ago) and it is still in the box, I bought the chest of drawers in April still not up!

    funny how you only notice things some times.

    best go check on mum and have a shower.
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • in_need_of_direction
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    I think you should use your break to establish fri as your day for sister shopping
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  • Buffythedebtslayer
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    Yeah, I try and it never sticks!

    Mum is very tired and down but at least up and dressed. I don't want to be out long. So so worried about her. This is awful.
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
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    Not being out long didn't work out. I think sister is feeling quite lonely as I stayed there for over an hour and she didn't seem to want me to leave. Mum is tired but eating and watching Serengeti so that is ok.

    I totally forgot the parcel. VERY annoying. Will have to do it tomorrow... or Monday...

    going to eat lunch and have a nap. I love a nap.


    PS as soon as I mention D on here he stops getting in touch!

    but date guy has been in touch...
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
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    My nap lasted for about 3 and half hours.

    Oops.

    Animals did not get cleaned out. Tomorrow's task!

    slowly realising what a mess the house is. Really not had my eye on the ball at all.

    I am going to search up and price what I need for the garden and for the house.
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Sun_Addict
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    I can understand your sister feeling lonely, when your time is taken up with being a carer it's wonderful to have a normal conversation with someone else that's not about hospitals and illness.

    Have a good Sunday. I hope your mum is ok xx
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  • Buffythedebtslayer
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    Sun_Addict wrote: »
    I can understand your sister feeling lonely, when your time is taken up with being a carer it's wonderful to have a normal conversation with someone else that's not about hospitals and illness.

    Have a good Sunday. I hope your mum is ok xx


    Yeah, it was just odd yesterday, obviously I go each week pretty much but she seemed different yesterday.

    Mum is doing better today - big relief XXX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou
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    Glad your mum is doing better xx
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  • Buffythedebtslayer
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    Exhausted.

    went for a drink to say good bye to a lovely supply teacher. bought chicken and chips on the way home and am now stuffed and tired.
    BUT AM FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Bed soon
    XXX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
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