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I need a hug

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  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 36,010 Forumite
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    That's very sad, Pania, but hold onto the thought that you are doing the best for him.
    That's a very special sacrifice you've just made.
  • jenevieve
    jenevieve Posts: 564 Forumite
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    Hi Pania,
    Sending you a big hug too. From threads and posts I have read, you are such a massive support to others, it is the least we can all do to support you when you need it. xxx

    :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:
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  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    oh pania i am so sorru to hear your losing DP i really am just wish i knew how to do the hug things for you ...will be thinking of you this afternoon
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    thank you peeps. I have so many happy memories of him and am going to spend some of the money on a ring or piece of jewellery to remember him by. The lady has agreed that she will sell him back to me if she ever has to so that gives me some peace of mind. I just never expected it to hurt like this. I think i was in denial. "oh no one will want him, i'll have to keep him etc"
    Thanks for all the hugs. xxx
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • TurnaroundSue
    TurnaroundSue Posts: 1,214 Forumite
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    BIG HUGS FOR YOU

    :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

    Will be thinking of you this afternoon - take care x
    When you were born, you were crying and everyone around was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying! :rotfl:
  • SuzySu
    SuzySu Posts: 3,478 Forumite
    Oh Pania......so sorry to hear your sad news. You are doing it for the right reason but it doesn't make the pain any easier. Be gentle with yourself.
    YOUR = belonging to you (your coat); YOU'RE = you are (I hope you're ok)

    really....it's not hard to understand :T
  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
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    pania hun you have done the riight thing, and as you see DP is only 20 minutes away
    Wish i was there to offer you a shoulder
    Andy xx
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
    DFD 5/1/16
  • moneymabel
    moneymabel Posts: 7,910 Forumite
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    Hi Pania we have never 'spoken' before but i really feel for you right now, like a couple of others i had to do the same with my dog a few years ago, it hurt like hell but it does get better and the woman you are selling him too sounds lovely. Just remember you are doing the right thing although it may not seem like it right now. Take care. x
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    thats the biggest hug i ever gave
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  • sophiesmum_2
    sophiesmum_2 Posts: 4,965 Forumite
    Hi pania,
    I know exactly how you are feeling, had to sell my welsh section D at the start of the year when i had a hysterectomy and couldn't look after him/ride him. It hurts like hell, and you feel so guilty but at the end of the day you are doing what is best for your pony. DD still has two ponies but I don't think I will ever have another it was so gut wrenching parting with mine that I don't think I could do it again.
    I really feel for you today knowing what you are going through:kisses3:
    Reduce,re-use, recycle.






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