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I give up - there's no hope

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  • Merry_Gentry
    Merry_Gentry Posts: 3,627 Forumite
    Hiya 'wot a life' - just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. Pop on over to Bankruptcy and Living With it where you can find out the personal side of it all, and hopefully get some advice on potential moves forward. Would definitely recommend speaking to one of the free debt company's - their advice is unbiased and can often clear away a lot of the cobwebs. Sending mega (((HUGS))) and please don't think you're alone.
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  • Baybee1984
    Baybee1984 Posts: 572 Forumite
    As Martin said, many people have been through it and come out the other side, me included! So if you havent already, visit the Bankruptcy thread to read up on other peoples stories, I owe so much to forums such as this, it helped so much to be able to ask for help and read up on things I was otherwise confused about! Good Luck!
    \\ Debt Free April 2008 //
    \\ Single Mummy to 1 boy - 4 years & 5 months old //
    \\ Last weeks spend: £139.39 - 2 NSDs //
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    i really hope you com back soon Wot a life.... the main man responding himself shows just how much we all care about what happens to you. DOn't let the one nasty comment scare you away from the boards. we are all here to help and support you.
    Working from home i am here the majority of the time as are many of the others. I have posted on here in desparation at 0330 before and had 7 people respond. Any time of the day or night that we're needed just post.

    Big hugs to you xxx
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    OK, hands up who else is welling up after reading Martin's post!!

    Wot a life, I do hope you come back and post again. There is so much support here for you.
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    wowwwwwwwwwwww, a visit from Martin to the thread - cool!
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • tigzem
    tigzem Posts: 2,361 Forumite
    hypno06 wrote: »
    OK, hands up who else is welling up after reading Martin's post!!

    Wot a life, I do hope you come back and post again. There is so much support here for you.

    Ermmm ....me!!!

    Come back Wot a life....x
    "Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little." Edmund Burke
  • MARTINS_DOLL
    MARTINS_DOLL Posts: 11,141 Forumite
    hypno06 wrote: »
    OK, hands up who else is welling up after reading Martin's post!!

    Wot a life, I do hope you come back and post again. There is so much support here for you.


    Meeee!!! I hope the OP comes back soon, and reads these posts.
    ................................... MSE MARTIN LEWIS ... :A ... THANK YOU.......................
  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    [quote=MSE_Martin;11337441 The first person to reply after me was Andrea, one of the site’s regulars.
    She simply extended a hand of friendship, said things were never as bad as
    they seemed, and ‘Why not send me a personal message? I’ll bring the
    virtual coffee, if you bring the biscuits.’ I’d be lying if I tried to pretend my eyes
    were dry after I read it. - Quote)


    Hi Wot a Life,

    Hugs to you Sweetie...In sitiuations like these we need support...a few kind words make all the difference...& don`t I know it!!

    As Merry has just said post a thread on the BR site...we will all look after you & most importantly let you know you are not alone in this....out there in `virtual land` are people who have `been there` & can empathise totally with your position & help you through it.

    We are a team over here & look out for each other.

    Speak soon, Ax

  • poppyg_2
    poppyg_2 Posts: 322 Forumite
    hypno06 wrote: »
    OK, hands up who else is welling up after reading Martin's post!! quote]

    Hands well and truly up :D
    Money doesn't make you happy so I'm skint but cheerful :beer:
  • Wot a Life What Martin said is true, there is always a solution but you need to come back and post again.

    With more info and the collective knowledge here and on the BR board we can help you find a way through this but we really need you to give us a fuller picture of the situation so we can help you, I hope your still reading this and post again

    Blind
    Thats it, i am done, Blind-as-a-Bat has left the forum, for good this time, there is no way I can recover this account, as the password was random, and not recorded, and the email used no longer exits, nor can be recovered to recover the account, goodbye all …………. :(
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