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maxmycardagain

kazwookie wrote: »

You can get these free from the family planning.

i need special ones....;);););););););););););););););):eek:

maxmycardagain

many years ago i got some ribbed ones with all bumps and ridges on em, i put it on inside out, didnt see why she should have all the fun..........

Merry_Gentry

maxmycardagain wrote: »

many years ago i got some ribbed ones with all bumps and ridges on em, i put it on inside out, didnt see why she should have all the fun..........

MAX!!!!!!!!! :eek: :eek: :eek:

JoeHel

Debtless wrote: »

Hi all could you look through this and tell me what else i can add on please.

Mortgage payments or rent on your home £525.00
Housekeeping (including food and cleaning) £260.00
Gas, electricity, other heating £80.00
Water £40.00
Telephone charges £40.00
Travelling to and from work and other essential journeys £200.00
Clothing £30.00 Can't afford
Maintenance payments and fines £10.00
Council tax £145.00

Other essential payments (e.g. life/household insurance, car tax & repairs)

Tv liscense £11
Dentist £20 Can't afford
Holidays £50 Can't afford
Haircuts £30 Can't afford
Family days out £50 Can't afford
Alchol £ 30 Can't afford
Taxi £20 Can't afford
Birthdays £20 Can't afford
Window cleaner £5 Can't afford
Xmas £30 Can't afford
Car tax £18
car insurance £30
Car maintenance £20

I don't know how any of the items I've marked could be allowed as "essential". I don't spend money on any of them because I can't afford them....

december

"I don't know how any of the items I've marked could be allowed as "essential". I don't spend money on any of them because I can't afford them...."

I'm sorry that you are not in a position to be able to afford those things which you have highlighted JoeHel however they some are necessary for your health, eg the dentists and surely you must buy clothes at some point?

Sorry if I have misunderstood your post

December

kazwookie

Races off to check what is in my niece's asda's pick and mix bag
:rotfl: :rotfl:

Merry_Gentry

JoeHel wrote: »

I don't know how any of the items I've marked could be allowed as "essential". I don't spend money on any of them because I can't afford them....

My understanding is that things like dentist, optician, etc are marked as essential as they are relevant to your health. Holidays, window cleaners, birthdays, alcohol, etc are disallowed though That's my understanding anyway!!

JoeHel

I have been to a dentist once in 14 years because I can't afford to go. I buy clothes once in a blue moon. I can't remember the last thing I bought. But I admit that I don't have kids.

philnicandamy

I cant find an NHS dentist & cant afford a private one yet my OR allowed expenses to use one....even though I didnt have any spare cash

Merry_Gentry

philnicandamy wrote: »

I cant find an NHS dentist & cant afford a private one yet my OR allowed expenses to use one....even though I didnt have any spare cash

I had an abscess last year and it cost me nearly £50 to have the tooth out - not sure which hurt more, having the tooth out or paying the bill :rolleyes: Fortunately I don't have to pay for the DDs to go to the dentist...