What rights does he have?

Mips

miserly_mum wrote: »

Mojisola wrote: »

He definately doesn't have a key to her house.She is keeping her door locked at all times (turn key not yale locks) and has bars on the doors too.

I really don't think they'd break in or anything like that. I have a feeling it'll be more under hand, vindictive stuff like false reports to Social services etc.

Let him do his worst, he is just giving more reasons why he shouldn't be allowed access.

The best thing for his child, is a happy Mummy.

Him and his Dad sound like really pathetic and spiteful people - the Grandfather!! should know better.

cobbingstones

Blimey this really makes me think about what happened to me in the same situation many moons ago. I received a solicitor's letter asking me for (wait for it......) the duvet, my son's bed :eek: our bed etc etc really, really hurt at the time. It also gave him great pleasure shouting at me when he was in his car all sorts of names etc when I was at the bus stop. What a silly little boy he is. If only I knew what I knew now.....

Give your dd a big hug and let her know that it will get better.:A

All the best

MM

allenx

Can i just say miserly that you are a really good mum, im sure that your dds worries are much less having you there for her, her family support is fantastic. I also think you need to have a few moments for yourself so you dont get too stressed too, maybe have a nice bubble bath or something. You are a lovely mum and you should be proud of yourself, your gd also has a lovely nanny xxxxx

miserly_mum

Many thanks to everyone for their replies and support. Its very much appreciated.

I was feeling a bit down over all this and then yesterday morning at 8.30 am my oldest friend who I haven't seen for 20 years knocked my door completely out of the blue.

We had a brilliant day and I haven't laughed so much in years. DD ,my OH and the rest of the family all met him and it really lifted all our spirits.

It kinda put the stuff with a certain young man into perspective. Especially as the Drill that they contacted the police about and needed so urgently is still lying in my house 2 days later. So up his bum and let him do his worst

Thanks to everyone again x