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DFW Daily Chat Mon 19th May

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  • boredofbeingathome
    boredofbeingathome Posts: 15,657 Forumite
    :hello: Hi Squizz:hello:

    Hi lucy, i have been in that predicament, with friends we were supposed to go on holiday with..long story, but it cost us with their lies.

    I think the best thing to do would be to mention you know, saves a lot of grief in the long run. Otherwise it will be between you all the time.
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  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Happy Birthday Keren.
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    I think the problem I have is I don't see what she gets from it?

    Does it really matter that they came down on Saturday night? No. I have issues with the fact she lied about it, I guess she didn't think she would get caught out.

    I don't know.
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    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Toto wrote: »
    morning everyone, happy birthday keren, I hope OH has some lovely surprises for you today.

    I've picked out a name for orlandia bean (Scarlet Rose), hubby doesn't like it though grrr, he want's something which will translate into french (he's french canadian). I think it's pretty and goes with the other girls names. Oh well we have 6 months to agree thank heavens ;) because I hate everything he likes. We need something slightly rock and roll without being too silly.
    I think it is a lovely name......
    Orlandia Bean:D
    check this out,it may help;)
    http://www.baby-guide.com/french-baby-girl-names.html


    And
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY KEREN
    :beer: :beer:
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Well there's loads of music related names...

    Indie.
    Michelle.
    Peggy Sue.

    Choose your poison - just make sure it's French... ;)
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
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  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Lucy1982 wrote: »
    I think the problem I have is I don't see what she gets from it?

    Does it really matter that they came down on Saturday night? No. I have issues with the fact she lied about it, I guess she didn't think she would get caught out.

    I don't know.

    Do you get on with her OH? Just wondered if there was any tension there maybe it's come from his side rather than hers?
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    Well there's loads of music related names...

    Indie.
    Michelle.
    Peggy Sue.

    Choose your poison - just make sure it's French... ;)
    Would you seriously call your daughter Peggy Sue?:confused::D
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    Do you get on with her OH? Just wondered if there was any tension there maybe it's come from his side rather than hers?


    Could be, I have know idea.

    Just sent her a little text hoping that she has a good week off and that she should have said they were down and we could have gone for a drink!

    Nice and friendly, she can make of it what she wants. I have such issues I guess as we rarely see each other which she moans about, but when she has the chance she lies about it :confused:

    Me confused!!! :confused:
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
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    The thing is Lucy you obviously feel a bit hurt by her lying and will spend forever wondering why she did it. So, I would mention it, just to get it all out in the open. You could just be matter of fact about it and not make a big deal of it. But I'd let her know she's been busted just to see what her reasons were.
    :A
    :A
    "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Lucy1982 wrote: »
    Could be, I have know idea.

    Just sent her a little text hoping that she has a good week off and that she should have said they were down and we could have gone for a drink!

    Nice and friendly, she can make of it what she wants. I have such issues I guess as we rarely see each other which she moans about, but when she has the chance she lies about it :confused:

    Me confused!!! :confused:

    Probably for the best, hopefully it'll clear the air. People are strange! :confused:
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
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