Need Advice About An Ex

scud4984

beer_tins wrote: »

A few questions:

Did he do any work on the house?
What kind of a monthly contribution did he pay?
Did any of it go on the mortgage? On improvements?
In short, the fact that he has no paper trail, means he has no hope.
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I`m a tradesman,, so yes,, most of the work was done by me. And costed and funded by me.

I paid £125 a week plus paying for all the other nice stuff ,, nights out n all that..

i dont know where £500 a month went, my wages (about £500 a week) went into her account and at the end of the month,, including her wage of 750 a month it was always empty....

I`m now renting a room,, she has a nice two up /two down fully modernised ,, by ME,house,, and i have nothing...
But i`m not bitter.. Just sad that she needs to spout all this online to ppl she doesnt know,, n who also dont know what she is like...

Anyway,, there endeth the lesson

millymoomoo_2

There are always 2 sides to every story but it's impossible to know the truth even if you are both posting
Forum members gave excellent advice to your Ex reguarding the information they were given and it certainly is not a case of always thinking the 'woman is in the right'.

millymoomoo_2

Incidently have you just spouted all this online to people you don't know?

scud4984

oh ,,, one last thing,, the car she mentioned,, the one WE paid for... she blew it up in july,, we`d split by then,, she rang me for help,, so i went and helped, towed it back,, took it to garage, got quotes, all way too expensive cos she`d blown the cam belt,,(that i told her in march.when we split needed changing),, she was going to scrap the car.. I asked her to give the dead thing to me.. And instead of it costing, in a garage, over £900 to repair,, valves,belts,skimming the head,, etc etc.. i spent 15 hours repairing it,.. It failed its MOT once fixed.. So did that work too.. ( i bet ya kinda getting the hint that i aint as bad a guy as she said i was) I had the car then,, and all in,, cost me £187 to repair.. So i suppose i did get something out of it.. But she`s still bitter that i now have the car.. Oh,, i drove her all over the east midlands to take her to garages to buy her new car too...

scud4984

millymoomoo wrote: »

Incidently have you just spouted all this online to people you don't know?

yes i know,, i just felt i needed to put my side forward to all the ppl that ,, at a time thought i was someone nasty...

scud4984

logging off now.. Feel better that i said my bit...

millymoomoo_2

Yeh I imagine I would do the same to be honest. Just remember though ,as you said, you have a better life now, good luck for the future. :beer:


I meant I would want to put my side forward lol not that I think you should log off lol cross posted

garnelle

Well Scud4984 you're not such a bad guy? Therefore you'll doubtless be paying back your evaded council tax thereby reducing my bill. Additionally all of your evaded income tax will be paid to HMRC as a matter of priority. And finally your unfortunate offspring that we've all been financially supporting through our taxes will be delighted to hear you've cleared all outstanding accounts with the CSA. Might I suggest you skip the usual chavtastic plastic guilt gift you inevitably despatch at xmas and instead send the money to the CSA to get the ball rolling. To conclude please don't burden us with anymore unfortunate offspring until you're man enough to pay as well as play at being such a fine father.

timmmers

Well it looks to me like both of them could be paying back CT...but it suited both for that cash to be spent on other things once...until the OP found somene else to share her hotel room?
Odd that isn't such a bad thing when a girl does it...and with someone sles hubby too?

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garnelle

Tragically nothing odd at all just terribly typical of the breed. She paid 100% of her Council Tax- as due as a single person. The propogating parasite failed to contribute a penny and therefore is 100% in arrears. Sadly he's yet another example of the " I love my kiddies" but have no intention of paying for them type that having once spawned litter move onto another doubtless younger and more gullible victim upon which to inflict further dysfunctional runts. All to suckle deeply from the bountiful breast of the poor b***dy taxpayer.