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Weekly Flylady Thread 12th May 2008

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  • ashbart
    ashbart Posts: 465 Forumite
    And Now He's Acting Like Nothing Has Happened!!!!! I Want To Ssscccrreeeaaaaaammmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • gunsandbanjos
    gunsandbanjos Posts: 12,246 Forumite
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    **And Breathe*** Ashbart. I have no advice, but have a hug and a hobnob(twinks finest:D )
    The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.
    Bertrand Russell
  • dougierobino
    dougierobino Posts: 35 Forumite
    Hello and help! I think you're just the swift kick up the derriere that I'm in need of! Can I join?

    Briefly, I'm 7 months pregnant with No2 (No 1, "I" as she will be known) will be 18 months when no2 makes their appearance. I've been suffering with SPD which meant domestic things at home have been completely ignored BUT my magic chiropractor has just about fixed me so I feel able to get on and do a bit more now!

    In addition we have been going through a move/ not move trauma for 6 months now - we had one house purchase fall through after the survey, then last month we were (get this, in this market) - gazumped! Possibly a good thing as though it would eventually have been our dream house it is currently a grade 2 listed wreck, which with 2 under 2 woud have been chaos.

    Then it turned into a stay/move in same area/ move county (OH is currently commuting over 3 hrs a day and doesn't get to see I during week)/ move country (Bahrain or Dubai with OH's work) four way tie. We've now decided that we're staying put til no2 is born but in the meantime looking for house MUCH closer to OHs work with view to moving whenever we're able after.

    So, we're putting lots of stuff into storage in the meantime cos in our (admittedly bigger than average) 2 bed terrace we not ony will have 2 kids and dog but also 40 yrs worth of paperwork from OHs inherited business, too much furniture, lots of my teaching guff I'm plucking up the courage to fling and I need more breathing space! Now we've made a decision I feel able to start things moving properly

    You know I said "briefly" at the beginning?..... Sorry! Do not read any further - my list is giving me palpitations!

    DR

    Dailies
    DW x 1
    WM x 1 and 2
    Drying + putting away x 1
    Nappy wash?
    Groom/ feed dog
    Bathroom
    Level 1
    Wed
    I @chidminder’s 8-4
    Wash mattress I has just spilt my tea over
    Change bedding see above
    Chiro @ 11
    NCT mag
    Make yoghurt
    Buy milk
    Clean bathroom
    Water garden
    Defrost freezer
    Hoover everywhere
    Thurs
    Music and picnic
    Dentists @3.30
    lIbrary
    Storage/moving prep
    Organise storage place
    -I’s room
    Pack up black drawers
    Pack up shelves I’s room
    Take down shelves I’s room
    Remove all boxes I’s room
    Shelves/ TV Stand to storage
    -our room
    Charity clothes fling
    File paperwork from pine desk
    Pine desk to storage
    Call council to pick up old mattress – AK to take downstairs
    AK’s work stuff box up from small chest of drawers
    -bathroom
    All boxes out to storage
    Barley twist table and bathroom cabinet to storage
    lIst freecycle stuff
    - living room
    Big table to storage
    Ikea for small table
    Translation stuff to upstairs desk
    Pack up A level teaching and spare MFL stuff
    Stuff I can’t do!
    Fix bedside table
    Blackout blind in I’s room
    Move stuff to storage (either AK + helper or man with van)
    Baby stuff out of loft
    Fix small sofa or put in storage
    New toilet seat
    Doc’s appointment re AK blood pressure

    For baby
    Double buggy decision
    Wash nappies and organise cupboard
    Wash bedding (moses, sheets, blankets, gro bags) put in cupboard
    Wash newborn neutral clothes and put in drawer when empty
    Organise I’s old clothes into sizes for either new baby or storage
    Buy mobile
    Argue with consutant re: birth plan
    Organise family for I/dog sitting when in labour
    Buy I’s baby present and pack in hospital bag
    Pack hospital bag
    Wash car seat covers and I’s car seat covers (wed?)
    NCT Mag
    Format all pics and check work when converted to PDF
    If any pics/ads don’t convert send to Andrew at Top Print
    Find rebranding stuff
    Email ed re:cover
    Work out provisional page count and plan
    Working copy
    Contents page
    Send proof to Alex/ Cathy/ Leonie before to print

    House move
    Organise viewing for 4bed detatched

    misc
    get l key fixed on laptop!
    Finish assignment 1, transation
    Tax return
    AK work filing system and file
    Fix blooming printer AGAIN
  • ashbart
    ashbart Posts: 465 Forumite
    **And Breathe*** Ashbart. I have no advice, but have a hug and a hobnob(twinks finest:D )

    Thanks gunsandbanjos - He just left the office, secretary came in, other guy in the office mentioned something and I've booed my eyes out. I feel like such a tit. Ok, am breathing and will try a smile in a minute. Thanks xx
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  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    welcome doug.. you'll have to make do with that lol.. Right.. you can cross of half of that list... we have seen lists like that before .. Michelle.. Jill and Johanne all had lists like that.. would you ladies tell her what to cross off please?!! I just read down that list and thought !!!!!! does a baby want a mobile for.. they can't speak and they'll only dribble on it.. then I realised.. a cot mobile.. of course... get a rellie to buy it as a baby-warming present. Don't argue over the birth plan.. say this is it.. like it or lump it and I'll go for a homebirth. they back down IMMEDIATELY!! Believe me.. I am champion!
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  • pigpen
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    finded my list..

    My Wednesday list

    [strike]WM[/strike] x9
    [strike]DW
    TD[/strike]
    [strike]BM[/strike]
    [strike]Laundry out, foldedand away
    post ebay parcels[/strike]
    fill a binbag for charity shop
    both bags out!
    [strike]bins out[/strike]
    get 5 more things on ebay!
    15 minutes on the manky work top..
    [STRIKE]15 minutes in my room[/STRIKE]
    [strike]laundry collection.. I have 2 empty baskets!![/strike] I now have 4 full ones!!


    Killer Kitchen - Monday
    Level Two
    [strike]Sweep [/strike]and Mop the floor..
    Level Three
    Empty and clean out the fridge.. including the drain hole bit at the back..
    Clean hob
    Pick a cupboard and empty and clean it out and replace only what you wish to keep!

    Mad Tuesday - Living room, Hallway, Stairs
    Level One
    [strike]remove clutter from floors, chairs [/strike]and fireplace
    [strike]Open the windows and let in some fresh air[/strike]
    Level Two
    Vacuum floors and sofas
    Dust those flat fluffy surfaces
    Level Three
    Vacuum under the furniture you can move
    Clean windows, pictures, mirrors etc.
    Sort out the shoes and boots and fling the dead ones and the out grown ones
    Vacuum hall, landing and stairs.. all the way up to the top!!!!!
    Extras
    • Wipe woodwork in the hall and stairs & wipe front door.. inside and out!
    • Wash those winter coats and put them away/fling the manky old ones..
    Study or other reception room & bathrooms - Wednesday
    Level One
    Clear the clutter from all these rooms!!
    Level Two
    Vacuum the floors
    [strike]Clean bath, toilets, shower and [/strike]sinks
    [strike]Wipe down the tiles and defragment the pc while doing this.[/strike]
    Level Three
    declutter and dust the pc desk *looks at desk then continues down the list*
    [strike]Wipe away cup rings and sticky things[/strike]
    wipe the keyboard, mouse, cables and sockets and suchlike.
    Clean the windows.
    Extras
    • HHI..
    • Clear a hotspot
    • Degunge around the bottoms of the taps!
    • Wipe cupboards and polish mirrors!
    extra extras!!

    boiled and peeled 1lb of beetroot.. then ate half of it! .. lol..
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    Right..

    this mornings HHC's

    9:30-10am..
    10:15-10:45am
    11-11:30am

    Who is in??? Which time slots...
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • suzieq
    suzieq Posts: 247 Forumite
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    Morning all!

    Had an AWFUL day yesterday :( mainly due to only having 4 hours kip the night before, and actually, OH gots loads done when he got in from work, which was fab, but kind of made me feel worse. But anyway, today's a new day, and I had a lot more sleep last night! :T

    Also, OH's auntie is coming to take DD1 for a few hours this afternoon :T

    I'm soooo pleased we're on bathroom's today, they really need doing.

    PC desk & bathrooms - Wednesday
    Level One
    Clear the clutter from all these rooms!!
    Ring someone you love just to tell them so.. we never do this enough!
    wash any curtains/blinds/mats etc that need doing
    Level Two
    Vacuum the floors
    Clean bath, toilets, shower and sinks
    Wipe down the tiles and defragment the pc while doing this.
    Level Three
    declutter and dust the pc desk
    Wipe away cup rings and sticky things
    wipe the keyboard, mouse, cables and sockets and suchlike.
    Clean the windows.
    Extras
    • HHI..
    • Clear a hotspot
    • Degunge around the bottoms of the taps!
    • Wipe cupboards and polish mirrors!
    Dailies

    DW
    WM

    Will be back to update - DD2 crying!

    Oh, and welcome Dougie - will have a read of your mammoth post later! :D

    Count me in for 11-11.30 HHC - this is my first one, what do I do? Jobs as above, or something else? And do I 'report' back on what I achieved?
    If you have good thoughts, they'll shine out of your face like sunbeams & you'll always look lovely.
  • pigpen wrote: »
    Right..

    this mornings HHC's

    9:30-10am..
    10:15-10:45am
    11-11:30am

    Who is in??? Which time slots...

    me - 9.45 to 10.45 (only just back in)
    11 - 11.45

    Moam
    Although no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.... life is a WIP.


    Snowball says too far away, working hard to bring it forward.
  • embb
    embb Posts: 3,118 Forumite
    Morning :wave:

    BIG congrats to your sis and you pigpen WOOT! :j

    Lil_me Matthew is gorgeous!
    Ashbart the crying's just a release of temper, don't worry about it, I'm sure your boss isn't giving any of it a second thought so why should you.
    Welcome dougie :hello: What a list! instead of crossing things off for you I'm just gonna say, delegate to OH/parents/friends/distant relations/neighbours/peeps off the street if you have to, put your feet up your cooking a new life.

    Unexpected morning off this morning, which is fab but I loose some money which I don't like lol my finances are taking a battering this week what with being off some of last week too I kinda felt sorry for myself and splurged a little bit oops :o no savings this week I don't think.

    DD1 didn't get the job at T-Mobile :rolleyes: she fluffed up the maths test....what like they're all capable anyway :mad: anyway she's got a job interview at New Look this avo for a trainee position, money is crap but it's better than nowt plus she'll get NVQ training in management.

    Done lots of housey things this morning, too many to mention but put it this way, the downstairs isn't full of junk anymore, lots of shifting/lifting/moving/throwing out been done.

    I'll join you for that HHC @ 10.15 pigpen, I need to do hoovering and stuff now. Got a couple of curries on the bubble at the mo, one for tonights tea and one for the freezer so just need to boil up some rice when I finish work this afternoon.

    Best go stir the pans.....
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