I'm depressed! DH wants different things...

lazarou_true

No problem chicken! You're not on your own. Loads of people are either going through similar stuff or have been where you are.

I'm new to DFW board.Think I might hang around a bit. It's much friendlier on here.

What kind of work are you supposed to be doing?

jak

I'm actualy night portering at a hotel. Just have to answer the door and stuff, not 2 arduous.
It is friendly on DFW isn't it. Helped me loads...

GunJack

I think the trouble with a lot of men (I'm one, so hang fire) and some but less women for that matter, is that:

1. they think because their parents ran a house by hubby giving wifey 'keep money' and they could blow the rest in the pub, they can too ( the converse of this is when women saw their mums like this and vowed they would never be like that).

2. they are too immature and selfish to realise that their family should be the driving factor behind everything they do (also applies to some women).

3. if they are in a long term relationship, the "family" finances are more important than their own spending wants..

I could go on, but just wanted to illustrate that all men are not like that at all...with me the needs of the family unit always come first.