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Meeting new people with little or no money - Is it possible??

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  • Riq
    Riq Posts: 10,430 Forumite
    That will indeed do :)
    "I'm not from around here, I have my own customs"
    For confirmation: No, I'm not a 40 year old woman, I'm a 26 year old bloke!
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Riq wrote: »
    That will indeed do :)
    you are too young for a start:rolleyes:
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • Riq
    Riq Posts: 10,430 Forumite
    Ageist ;):p

    It's okay, I'll just quietly sob in this corner, maybe I will hide under my desk and hide from the big bad world......

    :cheesy:



    On a side note, up to this point, I account for approx 21% of posts in this thread. Far behind Lucy and her 34% of posts. But then, it is her thread after all. I am bored as you can tell.
    "I'm not from around here, I have my own customs"
    For confirmation: No, I'm not a 40 year old woman, I'm a 26 year old bloke!
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Riq wrote: »
    Ageist ;):p

    It's okay, I'll just quietly sob in this corner, maybe I will hide under my desk and hide from the big bad world......

    :cheesy:
    not at all :kiss:
    But people would start talking;)
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Riq wrote: »
    On a side note, up to this point, I account for approx 21% of posts in this thread. Far behind Lucy and her 34% of posts. But then, it is her thread after all. I am bored as you can tell.
    No cant say that I noticed:rotfl:
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    Riq - What are you implying!!! have a lot to say :D
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
  • Riq
    Riq Posts: 10,430 Forumite
    Lucy1982 wrote: »
    Riq - What are you implying!!! have a lot to say :D
    You said it yourself earlier in the thread remember! :lipsrseal
    "I'm not from around here, I have my own customs"
    For confirmation: No, I'm not a 40 year old woman, I'm a 26 year old bloke!
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    I always drop myself in it!!!!
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    My priority is friendship. Please don't think I'm just gaggling about desperate for a husband. As I said on my post, I want people to actually stop and talk to me and find out my name, not just try it on for sex or pass me by with a 'hello' at the gym and know me as the lassie in the back row at the circuits class. Even me saying I've tried meeting people on the internet, the assumption is that I'm after a relationship. I am, but a friendship relationship.

    Good. Now what interests do you have? Have you tried looking for local clubs, or even other boards (yes - the rumours are true - they do exist...) which have those interests as their focus?
    Is that really too much to ask? It's been about 4 years since I last had dinner or a drink out with someone and life gets very boring sitting in and watching Sky Sports News night after night.

    It does - been there.
    I happen to think I'm a nice enough person. My nickname at school was 'the friendly cow'. People used to write that out on my music before it even got to me. So, friendly enough, but unfortunately a face like a compost heap!!!!

    Warm and good for roses? Especially on valentines...

    Seriously though, you need to start believing in yourself. If you meet people with the attitute "You won't like me because..." then they may try to meet your expectations.

    It's not what you look like that matters, it's what's between your ears and how it shapes what comes out of your mouth.
    Most of my own peers are off and married and it's a bit difficult saying to them, "Do you want to come out and do X, Y or Z at the weekend" when their inevitable commitment is their family.

    Besides no one does me at the weekend... And who are X and Y anyway?
    Anyhow, I ramble and have actually ended up in tears thinking about how lonely I can get. Time to get on with some work I think!!!!

    Aww babe... :grouphug: :kisses3:

    It's nothing to cry about. You just need to know what you want. Then - and only then - can you start a plan of action to get it.

    This place should be good for you. Why don't you get chatting with people on here who interest you and who are in places you can, and would like to go. May lead nowhere, or may lead to a night of laughing and fun.

    You don't know until you try.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Lucy1982 wrote: »
    I hate public loo's... I know where all the nice ones are. Although I did meet my ex in the gents.

    Almost something George Michael could have said...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
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