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  • Sugar_Coated_Owl
    Sugar_Coated_Owl Posts: 12,379 Forumite
    So sorry to hear about your brother. Have you received any kind of bereavement counselling?

    Living with depression is like riding a rollercoaster, it has its ups and downs. When you're having days like today do you have any hobbies that could occupy your mind from these negative thoughts?

    I'm certain that your boys wouldn't be better off without you. Just because you aren't super happy doesn't make you a bad Mother. Sending you (((HUGS)))
    --><-- Sugar Coated Owl --><--

    If you believe, you will survive - Katie Piper

    Woohoo! I'm normal! Gotta go tell the cat.
  • budget_budd
    budget_budd Posts: 204 Forumite
    Thanks again razorbladekisses, I usually see a counsellor from CRUSE but I didn't this week, I think that is helping although it can never do what I really want, bring my brother back.

    I try to run, but my OH has been a pain in the !!!! today (well the whole week really) and I haven't been able to do it. That really annoys me too!

    Thanks I need ((hugs)) my youngest is currently cuddling up to me now, making it very difficult to type.

    Thank you for your kind words today, I am feeling a little better now
  • juno
    juno Posts: 6,553 Forumite
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    Chuffin's dead
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  • LadyMorticia
    LadyMorticia Posts: 19,899 Forumite
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    Welcome to the thread JayleighAnn and Budget_Budd. :)
    I'm Anni. Some people call me Lady M so call me what you like.lol.

    I'm not really any good at advice tonight, but I do have two ears that are open 24/7 for listening. :)

    xx
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  • LadyMorticia
    LadyMorticia Posts: 19,899 Forumite
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    juno wrote: »
    Chuffin's dead

    :( I'm sorry to hear that hun. :([[hugs]]

    xx
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  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    juno wrote: »
    Chuffin's dead
    so sorry to hear your sad news (((((big hugs)))))
    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • budget_budd
    budget_budd Posts: 204 Forumite
    Thanks Anni

    I was scared to post before but I got the stage where I had nothing to lose and its quite nice here. I feel a bit better already. Well Ive calmed down a bit so I may start thinking a bit more clearly.
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    welcome to the thread JayleighAnn and Budget_Budd, everybody here is very friendly and welcoming, feel free to post as little or as much as you like, there is always somebody to listen
    big hugs
    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • juno
    juno Posts: 6,553 Forumite
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    She died in my hand, and for ages I couldn't put her down or anything. I've got her in a box on my knee now, but I don't want to put the lid on.
    Murphy's No More Pies Club #209

    Total debt [STRIKE]£4578.27[/STRIKE] £0.00 :j
    100% paid off :j

  • Sugar_Coated_Owl
    Sugar_Coated_Owl Posts: 12,379 Forumite
    budget_budd I'm glad to hear that you have a counsellor. I guess that a CRUSE counsellor is specifically trained in bereavement so hopefully they can help you with your grieving. As with most things I suppose it's just finding ways to cope in day to day life.

    Exercise is really good, or so they say lol. It's supposed to release lots of happy chemicals in our brain. Do you find that running helps your mood?

    (((HUGS)))
    --><-- Sugar Coated Owl --><--

    If you believe, you will survive - Katie Piper

    Woohoo! I'm normal! Gotta go tell the cat.
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