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Been very stupid - will I go to jail?

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  • Good advice given.....if your not thinking of phoning till the weekend T77 then you might not actually get to speak to someone if its pre-booked calls.......so all that build up of courage could be let down....best to make the call now and arrange an appointment for when your currage is built up IYSWIM.

    Well done for taking no notice of the prat....when your confidence has been knocked, it cant have been easy.
    I also remember the words of my friends, but I would rather have enemies than friends like you :p

    :p would like to make it known that ZubeZubes avvy is a DHN, she's not dancing :o
  • Robinho
    Robinho Posts: 12 Forumite
    Hello Terrified - hopefully I can help you out.

    You have been given some very good advice from what I have read so far. The reccomendations that you speak to the CCCS are very good. The CAB can also help you with your decision and advise you on what will happen if you decide on bankruptcy. For further information you can also visit www.insolvency.gov.uk for up to date leaflets and other info on bankruptcy and IVA's.

    To put your mind at ease - Bankruptcy is not a criminal offence and you will not go to jail. To repeat another poster, the most that will happen is they will try for a BRO (Bankruptcy restriction order) this can last between 2 and 15 years, although in your case I would say a max of 3 years if at all.

    Please take my advice and do not try to hide the money you have, they WILL find it and will have a much stronger case for a BRO.

    They will also try to retrive the money you lent to your friend last year so be prepared for that if you decide on bankruptcy.

    Hope this helps

    Robinho
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    To lighten the mood, check out my new avatar!
    you like?
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • You guys are all making me feel like crying! In a good way!! I feel so supported by all of you, it's wonderful. Thank you, thank you, and thank you some more. I can't make personal calls from my work line so I'll have to try and get home earlier tonight than last night (worked til 7pm) and see if I can still get through on one of the debt lines. I hope you guys are right and it's a question of pre-booking a more in depth call because I'm about ready to start panicing again :rolleyes:

    On a lighter note, I can't see avatars :confused: (as mentioned above) ..... is that just me? Do I have to change a setting somewhere?
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Go into User CP and you can change your options and preferences in there!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • AmIdone4?
    AmIdone4? Posts: 405 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    :rotfl:Hi Bank of Slate,

    Was the avatar inspired by that Trolling Irish Banker? (no offense to Irish or Bankers)...

    edit: banker from bank manager = slightly funnier:o
  • Waspeze
    Waspeze Posts: 2,479 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Go into User CP and you can change your options and preferences in there!
    ...Linda xx

    Thanks Linda, I didn't know that either! It's like a whole new world here now :D
    :hello:
    Save a little money each month and at the end of the year you’ll be surprised at how little you have.
    An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind
  • Toon_Dave
    Toon_Dave Posts: 1,021 Forumite
    Go into User CP and you can change your options and preferences in there!
    ...Linda xx

    Hi linda,

    You are the MSE guru now on Avatars and stuff!!! hehe... Bows down at feet....im not worthy...lol:dance: :dance:

    Dave
    :D BSC MEMBER NO. 125:D
    BR - 16th June 2008 AD - 16th June 2009
    :DIs it nice to be important or MORE important to be nice.:D
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    :dance: :dance: :dance: God I'm good! :dance: :dance: :dance:
    ...and modest too!

    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • Toon_Dave
    Toon_Dave Posts: 1,021 Forumite
    Modest till the end!!! the Tuxedo wont know what hit it either with your boogying!!!! .....just watch the tilt!!!

    Dave.
    :D BSC MEMBER NO. 125:D
    BR - 16th June 2008 AD - 16th June 2009
    :DIs it nice to be important or MORE important to be nice.:D
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