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Daily chat thread 18th March
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Morning everyone. I'm still a bit undecided about the house. We had the mortgage AIP yesterday which is a start. Hmmm oh I dunno, I have a list of reasons why this place isn't the best for us and the only reason I've got for not buying it is I'm worried about the state of the housing market. I've got the 'what ifs' going on. We can afford the morgage easily but what if we need to move because of work in a year or two and the markets have dropped and what if there is a major resession and the music industry grinds to a halt. I honestly really don't know what to do. I keep telling myself that I'd carry on saving, all be it half of what I can save here and rather than overpay for the time being we'd leave it in ISAs for an emergency fund.
I guess the debt free lifestyle has become so ingrained I'm finding it really hard to get into debt again, even if it is a mortgage.
If you can afford it BUY IT!Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
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That's a lot of 'what ifs' Toto
You can't plan for everything but go with your gut instincts!
...Linda xxIt's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.0 -
I`m off work now until a week on Wednesday! Huzzah!!
BUT i have a 2nd job & i`m making the most of it by working for them every morning this week. It was a good idea at the time but now i`m thinking of the lie in`s that i`m going to miss!!
On the good side it means a nice big pay packet as there`ll be 2 bank holiday bonuses in it too which in turn means a boost for my payments to my debts.AT LBM 7/1/08 (£24,018.09)- 25/09/11 (£13,032.25) - 26.04.15 - £6,429.70
LLOYDS TSB CARD £1,168.56 Loan 1LLOYDS TSB £5,261.14
:j Heading in the right direction!
Its taking so long......:(0 -
Morning folks
I am at home waiting for a delivery for my garden.
So far eaten toast, fed the cats twice! (they reckon they were starving!) both now asleep!
vacummed round, clean kitchen and the floor
Now here to see what tips I can learn today.
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Thanks guys, I'm going to do another SOA with the mortgage and see whats what (once again). It's really hard though because we truly don't know what the income will be from month to month especially with me being out of work (ish) right now. I have negotiated a retainer with EMI which is guaranteed money and without it we'd be screwed because sometimes it can be 3 months between invoice and payment. I do know as it stands my income would cover the mortgage and all priority outgoings, so if hubby for whatever reason was out of work (which he never is but never say never) we wouldn't be kicked out or thrown in jail for not paying the council tax but eek it's all a bit scary.:A
:A"Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein0 -
fed the cats twice! (they reckon they were starving!) both now asleep!
That's it! I'm coming back as a cat.
My two are comatose on my bed with furry bellies full of breakfast...Dennis will be down in an hour or so to see what our elderly neighbour has to offer him but Maureen will be asleep all day.
...LindaIt's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.0 -
No sign of my TCs today, and they normally go in on a Tues
Gotta go post some eBay stuff, then go food shopping, then just chilling at home with DS, who is looking a bit better today, and actually has some energy to play
Hacked off with ebay atm, all the stuff I listed went for pennies, and a lot didn't sell at all :mad: Shall avoid free listing days, as I'm sure the supply outstripped the demand!
Must get mt @r$£ into gear......'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde0 -
As predicted, Dennis has just sauntered back in licking his chops! I didn't even see him go out.
...Linda xxIt's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.0 -
Cool names for cats - Dennis & Maureen!! My last one was called Stanley, and the previous one was called Oliver because he always asked for more.....;)0
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Our cat (Well, kitten) is called Lewis...
you can guess who he's named after!Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
Que sera, sera.0
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