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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread!

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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Hiya shoppy :)

    Maybe we can say, new month, new resolve?

    xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Hey well done on the beer tipping and so far do I hear three of us?

    Crazy eh - I know its probably the worst month to tackle not drinking so much, but to be honest - any month has a good excuse for me and I am not exactly a party animal anyway - so with that in mind, and the honesty about here (of course) am planning not to drink this month (definately when alone) and try and moderate it with pals if I cannot avoid it or I end up thinking what the heck. Offered to do lots of driving as well.

    Muchly to do, will catch up with you all later. x
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • biscotte
    biscotte Posts: 246 Forumite
    i'll be a muskahound tonight Jo. i want an AFD and DH isn't back until late so I guess I'll spend a bit more time online than normal. I like the idea of new month new challenge. I know that the whole of december will not be Alcohol free but it would be nice to have he first couple of weeks AF at least.
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    I don't really go out drinking much at xmas, I do have the work do on the 19th though :eek: I am trying to get out of that. Apart from that, I drive on xmas day and OH is going out with his mates on new years eve and DD1 is planning to go to a mates too, so although I'll be home alone which is the worst temptation for me, I can also just go to bed if it gets bad. I might go up to London on Jan 1st to watch the parade with the kids, that's an early start so wouldn't want to be hung-over'ed anyhow. Blimey, get me, preparing already!!!

    ETA: check out the new sig, I plan not to drink during december, then we'll see where we are after that.
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Hey jo - with you there, found going to bed (very extremely grumpy) is the only solution I can come up with especially when I am alone) Kids going for two weeks and dreading it, heading south to my 'surrogate mother' who drinks like a fish - be challenging to say the least - but OH doesnt drink and I do want to get out and explore lots when in Englandshire.......
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • Although this is one of the hardest challenges, especially at Xmas, I read something in the papers this weekend on how to cope with social situations when you're not drinking. It suggested that you don't draw attention to it and just nurse a drink without actually drinking it. Not sure this would always work though...
    Biggest challenge is the fear of being thought boring, ridiculous really
  • biscotte
    biscotte Posts: 246 Forumite
    well, negotiating through the dinner time danger zone. no wine in house so that helps!!
    Who's AF tonight?
  • me me me me me.............will lurk about later on x muskahound checking in
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • With all the Christmas parties coming up over then next few weeks I think the closest I'm going to get to a AF challenge is to do my utmost not to buy my usual midweek wine or beers for drinking at home. Midweek drinking is my real issue when I think about being a DFW.
    At least one of my Christmas parties is a free booze affair so it won't damage the old wallet.


    Shrimply
    Debt 12/11/08 - c.£30,000 (need to sort out my SOA :o) - Qype Ninja!!! :cool: DFW Nerd no.1085 - PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT!
    Dec summary: t-shirt sale on Funk-t = £0 Design sales on Funk-t = £7.80 Picture library sales = £0 Toluna points = 20,880 YouGov account = £1 Amazon sales = £36.34 waiting for my £50 Qype voucher
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