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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread!

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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    eselt wrote: »
    I think I would just stay away, miserable and feeling really neglected and bored on a saturday night, but hey its only a few hours and its great to wake up on a sunday fresh and ready for the day!!!! :j

    It's the opposite for me, a saturday night with the remote :j :j :j :D

    Thanks for a great post and your support :)

    xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    It's the opposite for me, a saturday night with the remote :j :j :j :D

    Thanks for a great post and your support :)

    xx

    Yep.Me Too. My favourite night is Friday cause I have no work and DH goes to bed early cause he's been up since 3.30, So I get the remote and get to watch BB is peace and then onto the live thread.Oooooooooooooo.I Love It.LOL;)

    Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • eselt
    eselt Posts: 604 Forumite
    I think I'm really lucky, when OH left me because of all the debt and drinking he left the remote...me and the remote were happy to see the back of him...see there is a silver lining after all!!!
  • Hiya

    Can't believe we've reached 100....................kinda feel we need a celebration of some sorts. :bdaycake: There we are...................this should do it!! I think there's enough to go round.................:rotfl::T:rotfl:Congratulations to everyone in getting this far together.

    I hope you're all doing alright. I log onto this forum nearly every night to see what you're all up to.

    I think this is probably my last post. Without sounding overly confident I want to say I think I've cracked it. I think I owe you guys my life.....................it has totally turned around. Reading the posts, following your tips and coming across the Allen Carr book has help me quit the booze. Never, ever thought I'd ever be able to say that....................I'm clutching this new found freedom fiercely to my chest, like an overprotective mother.
    These last few weeks / months I've been going through such ups and downs with my bf. The relationship is finally over, alas, but through all the sadness I've not once thought about having a drink .

    I think it's finally time for me to move on with my life......................I'll never forget any of you......................how you've touched my life and restored my dignity.......................wow !!.................it's been an honour and a privilege 'knowing' you.:kisses:

    Take care y'all here.....................and when you hear this song on the radio ........ http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=ws5A5d5vUXY ..........just remember nearly-there is thinking of you..................yes that means you as well......................and your pretty amazing grace.
    Big hugs and kisses. :T

    Nearly-there xxx
  • Poppies
    Poppies Posts: 9 Forumite
    Hello to everyone

    Well I've been pondering for some time about my drinking and have decided that I do have a 'problem'. My one bottle of wine has now gone to almost 2 bottles a session. My weekend drinking has turned into 4+ times a week. On average I go to work at least twice a week with a hangover. I can't remember anything past the 3rd large glass of wine and am often surprised or embarrassed by comments from my family of things I have said. I have put on 2 stone in weight and often go to work with red eyes.

    I seem to be able to stay off the 'sauce' for weeks at a time but as soon as I have one glass I get panicky wanting my next one.

    I'm trying to decide if I would be able to educate myself to drink in motivation or give up altogether.

    Is anyone else here in a similar position?

    Any help advice would be greatly appreciated.

    Poppy
  • ageing_biker
    ageing_biker Posts: 353 Forumite
    hi nt, long time etc, well done you, I just got back from 10 day hol, only drank on 3 nights, is that good, hows jo, tng, barsham hb, molly all the newbies, must try to catch up. no drink tonight and no cigs for 4 months
    smoke free since 16 feb 08
  • ageing_biker
    ageing_biker Posts: 353 Forumite
    hi poppies wellcome to the thread think I'm the same all or nothing, still trying to have 30 dry days, day 3 again, but I did the fags and am going to do this
    smoke free since 16 feb 08
  • Poppies
    Poppies Posts: 9 Forumite
    don't know how many times I have tried to have a month off but have yet to manage more than 10 days!

    I'm hoping to get some inspiration from all you lovely people :j
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    I think this is probably my last post.

    Oh please don't say that :cry: I know you don't post that much but I really look forward to reading what you've got to say.....please stick around, even if it's once a week??
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Welcome poppies, you're in the best place:)

    AB, you are doing great, keep us updated x
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
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